I'm new on here been into the forums off line for a while and bee just using the pua scene for hints and tips for the last 12 months.
Read loads of material and been trying bits and pieces and have started developing my own.
My scenario is have had long term girlfriend met when young but went separate ways single for quite a while am nervous about getting back into it......
I find it reasonably easy to talk to girls (open) and interact with them mainly through work (i am quite high up in middle management in my company with a lot of employees) but breaking them down after initlial ioi can be difficult.
I have developed a technique which can be used face to face, on the phone or via messenger / text message.
I call it the out of 10 question game.
Once i have an ioi and a little bit of flirting i use this game.
It goes as follows:
Do you want to play a fun game?
answer (usually): "ok"
Latest response: "What game? X" (through whats app on iphone)
if no you can say "sorry, i thought you were fun..."
my response:" I pick a subject and you have to rate yourself out of 10. x"
her response: "Is this game rude?haha x"
Mine: "Depends on the subject. You want to play? x"
hers: "Go then x"
This is all what i got 3 days ago. I am now going to meet up tomorrow and i know what is going to happen..... you will see why!
The main aspect of the questioning of the game is to ask questions that are at first quite subtle but breaking down barriers and getting them to imagine themsleves in certain situations so i guess is using elements of NLP (which i study although at novice level)
Therefore you start at a very basic level (bear in mind there MUST be an ioi) i.e. "out of 10 how good would you rate youself at kissing?"
This immediately gets the girl thinking about kissing... hopefully you.
You can give 2 responses as they will generally rate themselves high or low.
If low, you can say a few different things...... "i'm sure you are being modest", "yeah you look like you need a coach" (depends how confident you are... where you take this is up to you.
If high... "yeah right, in my experience no one is that good" will match their ego and they may want to compete. "show me then" (different kiss close".
You can then go on th further questions on the following subjects which ascend in risk but also reward..........
Lying (i like this one as it adds to the mystery of the game)
Telling jokes (girls are notoriously bad, if they rate themselves get them to tell you one! They are proving their worth to you!)
Dancing (right environment they can show you)
Sexy dancing (see above.............)
Blow jobs (need to time this right)
MOST RECENT ONE TRIED TO PASS............ MY LINE:
"You can't pass once in the game sorry didn't I tell you?"
Anyway, rather tahn describe a whole conversation, here is one on a chat with a girl from work who has shown me quite big ioi.
IT IS IN REVERSE ORDER SO START AT THE BOTTOM.
COMMENTS AND FEEDBACK ARE APPRECIATED!!
04/01/2011 20:23:41: HER: 4? X
04/01/2011 20:23:36: HER: That's hard,I don't think I'm very sexy x
04/01/2011 20:23:10: ME: Sexy dancing x
04/01/2011 20:23:03: HER: 9 then x
04/01/2011 20:22:46: ME: I'd say 9 from my point of view! X
04/01/2011 20:22:23: HER: Being cheeky...as in how? X
04/01/2011 20:22:22: ME: Oh ok x
04/01/2011 20:22:12: HER: Change telling jokes to 5...I'm not that bad...and lying to 5 too,I'm not a great liar,I was messing with u x
04/01/2011 20:21:25: ME: Being cheeky x
04/01/2011 20:21:15: ME: Ok x
04/01/2011 20:21:10: HER: 2 x
04/01/2011 20:20:53: ME: Telling jokes x
04/01/2011 20:20:34: ME: Really that's interesting....... x
04/01/2011 20:20:17: HER: 10 x
04/01/2011 20:20:10: ME: Lying x
04/01/2011 20:20:08: HER: Next x
04/01/2011 20:20:00: ME: I agree ;-) x
04/01/2011 20:19:51: HER: Erm 9 x
04/01/2011 20:19:35: ME: Kissing x
04/01/2011 20:19:28: HER: Go then x
04/01/2011 20:19:18: ME: Depends on the subject. You want to play? x
04/01/2011 20:18:58: HER: Is this game rude?haha x
04/01/2011 20:18:38: ME: I pick a subject and you have to rate yourself out of 10. x
04/01/2011 20:18:07: HER: What game? x
04/01/2011 20:17:53: ME: Let's play a game..... x