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  1. #1
    knight_gt Guest

    Default Setting up Day 2 Issue - What do i do?

    I just picked up HB8.5 last weekend in a mall. I usually do day-time pick ups. I used direct approach and number closed her. This all happened on Saturday morning. Before leaving, I told her that I will be calling her. She told me during pick up convo that she just graduated from a college and moved here a few days back. Anyways, I called her up the same evening. I put a time constraint like I gotta go in a minute and wanted to check wat she is upto ? I kept the convo cocky and funny. It lasted for three to five minutes and then I ended it up since I was busy and supposed to meet some friends on Saturday night. On Sunday afternoon, I texted her with flirty and funny texts. She responded instantly after my texts and I always waited for 10-15 min before sending my replies. We exchanged four texts. She told me abt wat she is doing and she replied in one of her texts that " hahaha u r full of jokes". I called her on sunday evening but she didnt pick up my phone. So i left a voice message and after 30 mins I texted her in which I wished her luck for first day at work and also flirted that she should make enough money to support both of us. But she didn't reply my call or this text. Usually she responds instantly. On Monday afternoon, I again texted her in a funny way. She replied instantly like I m fun and also she told me blah blah abt her work and that she has assignments to work on. I passed funny remark on her workplace and then told her to finish the work and call me sometime in last text. She didnt reply to my last text. This all took exchange of three texts from each of us.
    She didnt call me back the monday evening. I thought she might since how much time assignments can take? Anyways I analysed my game and decided to Freeze-Out for a couple of day. Tuesday and Wednesday (today) have been totally Frozen out by me. But no text/call from her as yet. I was thinking that she might be very concerned about her new job and work as compared to seeing a guy in a new place .
    I need your help and suggestion on my strategy. I want to setup my first date with her and F-close her or at least Kiss-close her. Should I continue the freeze-out ? Should I re-engage her and ask her a good time to call and then setup a date?

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    Default Re: Setting up Day 2 Issue - What do i do?

    OK. Let me start with a metaphor. In the forest there are many majestic creatures, but none more jaw- dropping than the beaver. The cloud above is utterly enamored with the beaver, and makes it rain quite frequently. At first, the beaver appreciates the gift and dances about in the water as to express her gratitude. But gradually, the sight of overcast skies becomes a nuisance. The cloud knows that water is the bringer of life, but doesn't realize the consequences too much water can have. Slowly, the lake expands far beyond its former boundaries. The surrounding plant life is drowned and dies. Then, the rest of the ecosystem ceased from its former state. The beaver left and sought to get to a more stable ecosystem, constantly wary of the cloud and its rain.

    So dude, ya gotta lay back for a few days and see if she responds. If she responds positively, try to advance. If she doesn't respond at all or worse, let her go.

    If you want to quench her thirst, don't drown her. If she moves away from your rain don't follow. Wait for awhile, and let drizzle. If the response is negative or none at all, cast yourself away.

    Next time when a girl stops responding, call her once to offer to talk about getting a later engagement. If this fails, call her again to say, " You didn't strike me as a person to pass up an oppurtunity. If you could, try to FIND YOUR OWN REASONS to call me." (When words are capitalized say them in the tonality of a command.) If she doesn't respond through any method, she's not worth the time.

    I believe you could benefit from the Ross Jeffries Speed Seduction course.

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    Last edited by SISRAHTAC; 01-16-2011 at 08:36 PM. Reason: incomplete in advice

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    knight_gt Guest

    Default Re: Setting up Day 2 Issue - What do i do?

    Hey SISRAHTAC...thanks for the great reply. Your metaphor pretty much said it all. Well as I mentioned earlier, the last interaction was on Monday and then I started this Freeze-Out. Well I waited for like FIVE days and then I called her up today in the afternoon (sunday). This is wat happened:
    Well she picked up the phone but right from the start she said that I have been crazy busy and I know its Sunday but I have a lot work to do for Monday. I told her that I have been crazy busy myself and its been around a week since our last conversation so I wanted to talk to her. Then I asked her that whats a good time to talk to her. She was like I dont know and I have to go now. So I said alrite then and hung up.

    To me it seems like I have FUCKED UP a big time. Do you think that is there any other way that I can win the situation? I m guessing that I have lost the battle here.

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    Default Re: Setting up Day 2 Issue - What do i do?

    move on, you seemed wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy yyyyyyyyyyyyy too needy. time to get back out there. but keep it slow this time!

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    Default Re: Setting up Day 2 Issue - What do i do?

    Aye, this is a loss. It's ok, it's a learning experience. You gained experience, which is valuable.

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    Default Re: Setting up Day 2 Issue - What do i do?

    I'm glad my metaphor summed everything up. First of all, if a girl isn't willing to participate in any relationship, whether it be mutual or intimate, then there really is no relationship at all. If she is indecisive and so on, then I'd say leave this one be and move on. If at a later date she calls/ texts you and wants to contribute, access the pros and cons to see if you want to pursue a relationship with her. For now I'd say the best possible outcome with her would be the friend-zone, and that is counter productive.

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    knight_gt Guest

    Default Re: Setting up Day 2 Issue - What do i do?

    Hey guys, thanks for your valuable inputs. However, I would really like you to highlight my sticking points and weakness in my games so that I work on it and dont make the same mistakes next time.
    btw yesterday, I met this cute girl in a bar. I played some cocky/funny material and got her number. This time I m playing slowly and would text her tomorrow with some funny opener.
    Last edited by knight_gt; 01-17-2011 at 01:27 AM. Reason: missing pronoun

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    Default Re: Setting up Day 2 Issue - What do i do?

    first things first! take is slow with this one! last time you came off as soo needy it was straight outa the AFC show! have fun enjoy your convo as much as she does and your set

  9. #9
    culturedpearls Guest

    Default Re: Setting up Day 2 Issue - What do i do?

    Quote Originally Posted by SISRAHTAC View Post
    OK. Let me start with a metaphor. In the forest there are many majestic creatures, but none more jaw- dropping than the beaver. The cloud above is utterly enamored with the beaver, and makes it rain quite frequently. At first, the beaver appreciates the gift and dances about in the water as to express her gratitude. But gradually, the sight of overcast skies becomes a nuisance. The cloud knows that water is the bringer of life, but doesn't realize the consequences too much water can have. Slowly, the lake expands far beyond its former boundaries. The surrounding plant life is drowned and dies. Then, the rest of the ecosystem ceased from its former state. The beaver left and sought to get to a more stable ecosystem, constantly wary of the cloud and its rain.

    So dude, ya gotta lay back for a few days and see if she responds. If she responds positively, try to advance. If she doesn't respond at all or worse, let her go.

    If you want to quench her thirst, don't drown her. If she moves away from your rain don't follow. Wait for awhile, and let drizzle. If the response is negative or none at all, cast yourself away.

    SISRAHTAC
    love the metaphor, bro.

    knight... I think it woud also do you good if you're busier, with otehr things or more girls, so you CAN take things slow and not end up as bothered when a girl doesn't text back.


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