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  1. #1
    evankd2 Guest

    Default Finally hooked up with friend - now what ? - need thoughts quickly?

    Was LJBF with girl for about two years. Stopped trying to break out of the friend zone after a while. We were drunk the other night and hooked up. There have been some IOIs in the past, many while drunk though. I have heard from a mutual friend she is interested in me. She wants to talk about what happened tomorrow. How do I approach the conversation if I do want to try and start a more concrete relationship with her - and fully get out of the friend zone - an not be a beta about it?

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    juanvasquez Guest

    Default Re: Finally hooked up with friend - now what ? - need thoughts quickly?

    I had the exact same thing happen to me recently. I was friends with this really beautiful girl for years, always wanted to have sex with her. However she just really wasn't that into it when she's sober. But every time we drink together she's a totally different person and gets freaking horny. The other night we actually went to a Strip Club, and she got up out of her seat suddenly and said "let's go home and get naked". After that the sex naturally came. However the next day when she sobered up she was kind of weird about it, I think it was her anti-slut defense. Provide some comfort, and let her know things haven't changed. That should work...

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    thenatural Guest

    Default Re: Finally hooked up with friend - now what ? - need thoughts quickly?

    Can't say I've ever been in this situation before because I don't have female friends, but my first impression is that you are good to go.

    The fact that she wants to "talk" about what happened obviously means she wants things to continue. I would basically be yourself but just add your game into the mix. Perhaps less is necessary since you know each other so well, but don't act like you're just friends again.

    Either way I really think you are good to go here though...

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    Default Re: Finally hooked up with friend - now what ? - need thoughts quickly?

    Quote Originally Posted by thenatural View Post
    The fact that she wants to "talk" about what happened obviously means she wants things to continue.
    Can't be sure that's the case, but it does sound like you have the opportunity to turn it into something. If you really want to, then suggest you're open to it. See what she says. And if it's a no go, say that you're mature enough to handle it if not. conversation over, go back to playstation and exchanging cards on your birthdays.

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    Default Re: Finally hooked up with friend - now what ? - need thoughts quickly?

    Don't talk about it a nagetive envioment. Take her out somewhere that can increase sexual Tension/attraction, while at the same time seems like innocent meeting between friends, like indoor rock climbing or something that will make her place her physical wellbeing in your hands


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