Good idea Prince
Good idea Prince
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I'm stuck in a position right now and im trying to figure out if im friend zoned or shes just playing hard to get now or what. that way i can figure out what to do next. Anyways here's the story. About two years ago this HB10 (at the time) came into my restaurant where i worked, with her parents. After a few weeks i finally got the courage to talk to her, in front of her parents. Found out we go to the same universtiy, didnt ask for her number there. Ran into her at school and got it from her then. We talked and flirted for awhile then i found out she has had a bf. After she had told me that she liked me. Naturally i get jealous and i mentioned my feelings to her, but since i had liked this girl so much i still decided to talk to her everyday, ask her out for drinks, I know totally AFC bs. This all happened b4 i read the forums. Anyways as i was saying we txted almost every day, i initiated them all (i know that now i was friend zoned), then during the summer i went to vegas and my phone was stolen so i couldnt talk to her for a month, probably the best thing that could have happened to me. I get a new phone txt her and find out shes single. We start hanging out again. At this point i had started reading the forums and kinda knew what to do and what not to do. although i was buyin her everything, literally, it kinda sickens me just to think about it. We were flirting, i was negging her, using kino and she was receiving it very well and sending me IOI's. Things seemed to be goin well then a few days after i buy her a birthday present shes dating some guy. I was again jealous but i handled it well. I had a talk with her telling her that i thought she should have told me about this guy while we were hanging out (i found out through one of my friends telling me that he saw that she was in a relationship on facebook) i felt really disrespected but like i said i kept my cool didnt yell or anything just told her straight up. I still liked her a lot and was talking to her every now and then not nearly as much as i was b4. also didnt really help that we would see each other at the gym and work out together. again at this point definitely friend zoned. then out of no where i just stopped talking to her and she never came into the restaurant. we went months with out talking again definitely helped me. Then recently she came into where i work. I go over to their table say hi, give the mom a hug, and shake the dads hand (to show that im a sociable person) and bc her mom loves me. we caught up a bit but i didnt linger bc i was working. she txts me saying shes so glad that she saw me and that she missed me. I replied ya its been awhile good to see u too. A few days later shes texts me to go eat with her and so we went to yardhouse. Definitely didnt use any kino, which i should have, was making her laugh and i could see that her legs were loosley crossed and her foot pointing at me, definitely an IOI. Also im very good at eye contact and so was she. anways getting to my point. after that lunch, seems like my feelings for her were coming back. I worked out with her last monday, our usual day, then went out of my way to be there on tues, definitely an AFC deal. At the end of our work out i gave her a hug i kissed the top of her head (only bc her cheek was burried in my chest) since then I decided to wait a few days before i talked to her again. Didnt work out with her on wednesday and accidently ran into her on thurs. However i relized that the conversations were starting to get dry and not fun (friend zone) so i started flirting a bit and using kino. she wanted me to stay with her group meeting for some project. I told her i cant im busy today and left. Didnt talk to her until today. All i said was Hey there do u work today? she said Heyy! no i dont :/, sry. my plan was to meet her right as she closed and take her out for drinks. I havnt replied nor do i plan to. Also she lives like 30 mins away so i feel like meeting up for drinks would be a problem for her. After all the things shes put me through i now see her as an HB7. So heres my question, am i friend zoned? do i need to freeze her out or just give it a few days and try talking to her then? Also im having a ky slip n slide party at my house tomorrow and was thinking about sending out a mass txt to the women saying "ky slip n slide party at my place! lets get lubed up and get crazy ". I think it sounds good due to the sexual inuendo. do i include her in this txt group? please help. sry about the length
Last edited by kms1188; 07-03-2011 at 11:47 AM.