Had a thought about how to handle the doesn't pull away / doesn't lean in situation followed by some I don't want to regret sh1t. Perfect thing to have said/done (it seems) would have been to not pull away at all, but say good thing I just want to kiss you and right back in you go. Still no, I like what someone said about grabbing her in a bear hug (back to funny) and force a kiss on her check or forehead with 'see, I got what I wanted' or something. Keeps the physical escalation going, keeps it funny and light without awkwardness creeping in.
Also guys, learn to kiss, don't go shoving your tongue in her throat yet. I like thinking of it as two girls kissing and that was golden before I got married. Makes it sensual and exciting, leaves her wanting more. Women LOVE sensuality, so be soft and creative, great way to escalate too as you can slide right off the mouth and head across the checks and down the neck. She's picturing you keep kissing lower at that point and trust me her hair will be on end if you do it right.
Anybodies thought's on the whole kiss then pull away thing, but how do you know when to stop teasing and claim the reward. I haven't been reading anything about moving from making out to escalating to real sexual contact, so any help there would be great!