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    AZPUAGuy is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Getting from the make out to the lay...

    So I know I have posted about this one date and this same situation in the field report section, but it is ridiculously long, and if I added this to it, it would just be uncalled for haha.

    So basically, this girl, an HB9, whom I had my first date with last night is attracted to me. Our date went well, we had an awesome time, lots of touching/cuddling, and ended with a make out. We texted today and it involved her saying we should hang out again, but in her bed! Lol, she sent another text saying "Jk, you arent allowed in there...yet ". So im trying to depict all this now. Since we were getting really "feely" and made out the first day I have talked to her, and sending those texts, does this hint to me that I better hurry up and get this turned sexual? I dont want to miss this chance, but I also dont want to RUSH it and blow it, although I would probably be more likely to miss the chance rather then RUSH it.

    Let me know what you guys think? Also, if it helps to understand more you can read my other post in the "Field Reports section" it is long, but I will rep you whatever I gotta do to get some more feedback

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    Default Re: Getting from the make out to the lay...

    when your making out with a girl do the test and feel method. push it as far as you can. a girl will tell you what shes ready to do or how far shes willing to go.

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    Default Re: Getting from the make out to the lay...

    I'm gonna say this before bill does... "Guys are the gas girls are the breaks. be the gas" haha as long as you are tactful with your escalation she will never get uncomfortable and can stop you whenever she wants.

    Did she say you weren't allowed in her bed yet as a follow up text before you responded? how long was that? You are leaving out a lot of key factors here but let me sum it up for you...


    1. She wants you in her bed. She's obviously thinking about it and even made a leap to outright saying it. She was testing the waters to see how you would respond. It's game on man, you're in.

    2. If she said jk you werent allowed in her bed yet after a long time of no response from you then shes just trying to cover for herself. She probably thought she went too far putting herself out there and took it back. Not a big deal.

    3. If she said it quickly after, see #1.

    4. If she said it after you responded... your response sucked. With that said though, it doesn't matter. She likes you and a small screw up now doesn't mean its over.


    I'll help more once you give us more info

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    Default Re: Getting from the make out to the lay...

    Ok, well how I look at it is, when I go to her house for the second date (I think she agreed to watching a movie at her place), I will escalate until I either 1- get laid or 2- am told to stop at a certain point in the escalation. Let me know if I am wrong here.

    So basically at 6:17 PM is when she said "In my bed", I didnt respond, I was at work and it was busy as **** and I thought I would make a dumb response anyway. So I never texted back and at 6:59 she said "Jk, your not allowed in there...yet " and my response to that was "Oh if you saw me in my sexy bed outfit you would be begging haha ".

    So yes, number 2 would probably be correct. So does this mean it will be harder to get in her bed or what? Yes it sort of seemed like she was just toning down the last message she sent haha.

    But today we met at school and just had a quick minute long interaction because I was invited to go out for dinner by some old friends... But we hugged twice and I made a little joke and then headed out. How can I push this further without making her feel like I am just trying to take her pants off? Or if thats what she really wants, how should I act with her and text her?

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    Default Re: Getting from the make out to the lay...

    Really nothing is wrong. Basically she wants you in her bed. She's been thinking about it and that's why she sent the text. The fact that she softened it up doesnt mean she doesnt still want it just as much shes just making sure it didn't seem to be over the top. Go over for that date and see what happens. From the looks of it everything will go great. good luck man, stop over thinking it and just enjoy yourself

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    Default Re: Getting from the make out to the lay...

    Quote Originally Posted by InTheMaking View Post
    Really nothing is wrong. Basically she wants you in her bed. She's been thinking about it and that's why she sent the text. The fact that she softened it up doesnt mean she doesnt still want it just as much shes just making sure it didn't seem to be over the top. Go over for that date and see what happens. From the looks of it everything will go great. good luck man, stop over thinking it and just enjoy yourself
    Haha awesome man. I do tend to over-think things sometimes. I will definitely send a text tomorrow about setting something up, seeing as I didn't text her today at all (didn't want to seem like a needy b*stard). I will post back on here to let you know how it goes down

    Oh, and I still live at home, havent figured out a place to get a condo with friends yet, so whats a good way to have this at her place, IF she says she wants to come to my place? I would think just saying I live at home would suffice, but will that seem weird to this girl? (I would love to have her over, our house is a perfect "sex-location" and its big and lots of different places, but theres always someone home)
    Last edited by AZPUAGuy; 04-15-2011 at 04:49 AM.


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