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    jellymint43 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default How's this for negging

    today this girl i want to sleep with (no relationship) - she and i fooled around, but that's it so far. I'm pretty sure I can get her into bed. she started IMing me to talk not sure why, saying she feels awkward around me. I'm not sure why. i never really noticed.
    She told me she likes me, and she's attracted to me.

    i could tell what she was getting at.
    but I didnt want to lead her on so i told her i hope i made it clear i dont want a relationship.
    I told her I do not like emotional attachments. for some reason i think that one was a little harsh.

    But how'd i do?

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    Default Re: How's this for negging

    thats not a neg. thats beign honest
    which is good! if your going to use a girl never let them think they are going to get more, no deception in the Game at all. but dont worry about it that was the right thing to do, not for your game but for the aftermath of it. you could work on saying it just as clear in nicer ways of course!

    but a neg isnt that, a neg is something that discqualifies her value while subtly increasing yuor own, OR something you use to Disarm them to make them think you arnt interested.
    its not an insult nor is it something that is mean that you say about them, negs are just for openings. after that its more cocky funny but it can still go too far. hope that helpd

    best of luck
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    responsive to change." Charles Darwin

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    Default Re: How's this for negging

    Like Bradders said, it's clear, honest, and straight into the face (well, over IM but you know what I mean). I'd like to know how she responded, though.

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    Default Re: How's this for negging

    Quote Originally Posted by VirgJans12 View Post
    Like Bradders said, it's clear, honest, and straight into the face (well, over IM but you know what I mean). I'd like to know how she responded, though.
    in my experince i only need to say that sort of thing(and iv said it almost exacly like that) when your ina postion of such power it doesnt matter, every time iv said this its accomapnied a "i see several women at the same time" i say it with such conviction and seam like im such the prize that they accept.
    "It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent, but the one most
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