Sorry if I'm posting this in the wrong forum (I don't think it's strictly online dating stuff so that's why I posted it here).
Anyway, I'm good at meeting girls online and getting them to meet me in real life, but that's where I get lost. We usually have a good time and become friends, but that's it.
1. How far should I exactly progress before meeting them in real life? It's not hard for me to tell what my position is before meeting them (for example "friendly guy", "anything is possible", "possible lover", "possible boyfriend"), but I'm not sure which position I should aim for before meeting them... Like, is it best to get as sexual as possible before meeting them or should I try to meet them without progressing too much online?
2. How exactly should I behave when I meet them?
What I'm looking for are (either long-term or short-term) sexual partners without obligations.