So, some of you have read my post, about my "first date" with a girl ever, and what went on. So that SAME girl, the one I kissed closed the first date, we have "hung out" like 5-6 times now, basically once a week, or twice at the most. Up until this last date things have been pretty fun/playful but never really got "sexual", just usually ending in a kiss, or multiple kisses, which is fine I guess. But this date was different, in alot of ways, allow me to elaborate.
So it was a typical hang out night except we started with a high class dinner, for my graduation. We went to the hot tubs after and that where it all started.
Over the course of the night these are some of the Kino things I did: holding her bare waist (swimsuit), rubbing our legs together sitting really close, craddling her (in the water, I couldnt hold her in the air for too long haha), incidently touching or nudging her boobs, straight up touching her boobs (for example: the jets came from the bench straight up, and were throwin my junk around and she said her boobs were all flying around, so I cupped them, and said something funny in a sarcastic but serious tone, lol) she was sitting on the ledge above the hot tub, and i put my head between her legs into her lap area of course facing the other way and not diving my face in there haha, also in that same position I licked her upper part of her leg in her sensitive area, also she has a belly button ring and I played with that and then licked it haha she said that was weird but I told her she liked it and she agreed. playing with the strings on her bikini teasing i was gonna pull em off. I cant think of anymore right now. I didnt slap her booty or anything too overt, but i am kicking myself now, i should have...
Here are some of the "sexual" talks that went down, in no order: 1- we talked about my name Tyrel Johnson, and how im half black, and that its the lower half, the half that matters. 2- we had little moments where I would turn it sexual, like splashing water on her face and then she said she liked it and I was like, "hey lets not share your desires in public, save em for the bedroom"
3- she was saying she liked these handcuff necklaces she saw once, and I turned that sexual saying like "wow, you just keep hinting all your fetishes dont you? I have a pair, but we need two, to strap me to the bed post"
4- lots of sh1t went down, literally for like 2 hours 45 minutes we were in the hot tub talking like 80% of the time about sex stuff haha.
5- we talked about how we both felt about relationships and how she had made some mistakes, letting guys seduce her and then they would leave her, and she doesnt think that I will, but she is sorta cautious, and I told her all that im a nice guy and whatnot and those guys ruin the chances for the legit guys. she liked that, and truly, I am a nice guy, sometimes im wayy to nice, and i kick myself for those moments...we said how were "just friends" and then we both winked. and then both said "what!?" and then we were like, ohhh, were friends with benefits..."
So yeah, this date had lots of Tension, hell of alot of talking about sex, so much sh1t it would take hours to write down just the different sub-topics...There was a heck of alot of kino'ing, and I fracking licked her upper leg and made out with her belly button and small stuff like that, but in front of like 3 guys and two girls in the same hot tub haha. they were making small talk fighting to make conversation while we were almost banging No issues tonight.
Last thing...we talked about our trip to a resort, where were getting a room for a night and day. there was alot of sexual talk about that too
So, what do you guys think? I think shes ready to bang when we go to the resort, as we both live with parents, and it would be near impossible to get into a house alone. but do you think I could try to push it further sexually before the resort trip in two weeks?
let me know thanks alot!!!