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    Default Can't create SEXUAL Tension?!

    Hey guys, although I'm a new member I've been following the site on/off for a few years. I've been frustrated lately because I can't seem to get laid very often. I'm physically fit, tall dark& handsome, hell girls even tell me I'm hot *sigh*

    I'm a genuine nice guy with some shyness and good confidence however I would classify myself as rAFC. I can get girls interested be cocky/funny, flirt, push/pull yadayada but when it comes time to man up, create sexual Tension and escalate I just CANT find a way to pull the trigger! I know some guys would kill to be in my situation which is frustrating but is also extra motivation.

    Any thoughts or advice is welcome
    Thanks guys believe it or not this site has helped me so much in the past I hope it comes through again

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    Default Re: Can't create SEXUAL Tension?!

    sexual Tension isnt really formed with innuendo, but more with flirty half seriouse jokes and comments, sly off-the-cuff remarks that put the idea in her head without actaully saying you want to fu ck her.
    it helps to know what method you use, but for now i'll assume you use your own one.

    things like innuendo are fine for breakign Tension with humour in open stages, but i find hu mour doesnt help too much in the attract and seduce stages, especialy not the close it just puts them off.

    so say a lady would touch you abit, or give you a nice little look, or stand close to you in an obvisouly flirtious way
    if you said an innuendo yeah it amy be funny but id find it kills amoment rather then make it, like if you were hacing sex and your lady made ajoke, would it turn you on or off? exacly.
    but if you said something like
    "oh! calm yourself you'll do things to me"
    this implants several feelings, but the main ones(or at least the desired one in this situation) is that she cant turny ou on and/or she does! BUT your still joking around playing it aloaft and playing hard to get, this is where the tension comes in.

    my general rule of thumb for sexual tension is
    "if it gets across your interested but in such a way it they cant be sure your intereseted"
    its 'something'tension
    for sexual tension just make it about her actions towards you, becareful though, if shes not aware shes attracted to you, or scared to be(fear of being judged etc) mentioning it will suddenly make her self conciouse and put her off. but as a decent PUA which ims ure you are, you wouldnt use sexual tension untill you'be opened hooked got ehr interested. about the time before the kiss but after the question that this guy is just talking to us casue hes board.

    say when they start are bidding your attention type time really! it can be long can be short, play around with times, eventually you'll get used to it ims ure!
    "It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent, but the one most
    responsive to change." Charles Darwin

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    Default Re: Can't create SEXUAL Tension?!

    this is for a multi-set opener i might add once you have them secluded you sohudlnt be negging or playing ahrd to get, well as much, just keep the idea in their head"what does he want from me, hes flirting but he also seams disinterested"

    best of luck
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    Default Re: Can't create SEXUAL Tension?!

    good reply Bradders. I'm always taking notes

    SO to parapharse: sexual Tension is the delivery of uncertain interest.

    i love good wordplay

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    Default Re: Can't create SEXUAL Tension?!

    Kino is also one of the most important things u can do when trying to escalate sexual tension after building some sort of rapport. just a few 'innocent seeming' touches would get the girl comfortable with you and may get her aroused and willing to move on to a more physical level. An example may be putting ur hand on her lap when u tell her something or holding her hand when walking through a crowd in the club etc. But dont go overboard with the touching though

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    Default Re: Can't create SEXUAL Tension?!

    i use Kino to build repore, its a trick used to build up a sense that they've known us longer then they have.
    also ki no isnt holding her hand when you walk, thats a complience test not kino. you squeeze she squeezes back ioi you squeeze shes loose IOD

    kino my friend is as your talking to her, looking into her eyes or around her face you tocuh her gently on the arm or the hip and remove your hand as if nothing had happened, you havnt stopped talking just kept on withy our conversation, if you dont notice it, theres much less chance she noticed it. these touches, unoticed conciosuly are picked up subconciously, and as your conciouse thought doesnt see them as a threat, the subconciouse catagorises the touching as "safe" ie trust/comfort.
    the same is for eye contract and *(and no kidding)* breathing patterns, if you breath intime with them, you give them the impression of closness.
    same can be said for any similer actions, and even walking in time. conciosuly they may not notice or care, subconciosuly its all taken it and builds trust.
    kino isnt for sexual tension, not really. touching is, but kino is only what we refer to the art of building trust and reppore through trusting. not sexual tension
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    Default Re: Can't create SEXUAL Tension?!

    i think you need an expert advice.

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    Default Re: Can't create SEXUAL Tension?!

    Thanks for the advice Bradders! Much appreciated..


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