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    Default Is this a good idea..

    As far as Push-Pull goes i tried it on one girl and it seemed to work a lil but...

    I'm thinking about somewhat ignoring this chick, like i wont talk to her at all and when she tries to start convo with me just use uninterested one word answers and just not give a shit basically. Also to prove im not pissed for no reason talk to another girl i hang with normally around her just to make her think she did something wrong.

    Thing im worried about is that this may push to much or will it create some kind of Tension or something idk.

    P.S. i suck at sexual tension my teasing for some reason feels like im insulting.

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    Default Re: Is this a good idea..

    Acting sightly uninterested, or a bit aloof is a great way to build attraction, but it has to come from a confident and secure place. It sounds like you are trying to play head games with her to get what you want...not a good idea. Remember, you are working to build attraction, not a negative vibe.

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    Default Re: Is this a good idea..

    Well to me it seems like being a PUA is mostly playing mind games negging, disqualifiers, dhv, etc... It's all to get into the girls head and convince her that you are what she wants

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    Default Re: Is this a good idea..

    No, definitely not a good idea. What you have to do is SLIGHTLY, not TOTALLY. Being this manipulative doesn't serve you in the long run, neither with her,nor with some other chick. Just run standard game and you'll be fine.

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    Default Re: Is this a good idea..

    I can't get into a girls head and convince her that I am what she wants. Why would I want to? I use negging, disqualifiers, dhv to communicate that I'm not putting up with her bullsh*t. If this makes me attractive, great. If not, that's fine too.

    PUA is more about a Mindset than mind games.

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    Default Re: Is this a good idea..

    Dam I'm still confused haha, I can tell the girl is somewhat interested I'm just havin trouble pushing it farther it seems like when I do she backs away, I have ignored her before and it worked sort of I think I messed it up by pulling to much

    I'm not gunna completly blow her off just not give her much attention

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    Default Re: Is this a good idea..

    I firmly believe you forget the fact that a women also has a reputation to protect. Uneless you're a rock star (or she's very attracted to you) it's not going to make any sense for her to chase you and decrease her value in the eyes of others while you show absolute no interest.

    Don't forget that there's a social environment who dictates her behaviour in a very strong way.

    I got the feeling that you want to make her run a full marathon at a moment she is only willing to run 200 meters for you.

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    Default Re: Is this a good idea..

    Quote Originally Posted by Scorpio250 View Post
    Well to me it seems like being a PUA is mostly playing mind games negging, disqualifiers, dhv, etc... It's all to get into the girls head and convince her that you are what she wants
    PUA isn't about convincing a girl that you're high value, it's about being high value and knowing how to show it.

    With your push/pull, is it possible you've been pulling before you push? I've seen that problem a fair ammount
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    Default Re: Is this a good idea..

    you can do some of that but if she does something you like reward her and talk and have an interesting convo with her. she will think of something else fun or nice to do with you so you will talk to her. its like a treat for a dog thing lol
    im on a different level


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