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    Default Need some help! Quick!

    There is this girl i really wanna nail but its kind of a particular situation. Me and my gf of 2 years broke up 3 weeks ago but anyway, I have known this girl for years, she is a friend of my best friends girlfriend and she has known my past girlfriends and seen me with them and hung out with them and all that. I dont see this girl all the time just every once in A while but we have all been hangin out the past few weekends. This girl is maybe a 7 and she isnt full of herself and she is a total sloot. She is the kind of girl that likes it when u pick on her, the problem is i have taken that a little too far over the past few years and sometimes when i would see her she would act like she hated me and sometimes she would be excited to see me but here in the past 6 months i had been a total ass to her and when i saw her a few weekends ago she wasnt to thrilled to see me but i started chatting her up and being cool and one of my buddies gf put in a good word for me and that warmed her up to me again. She tried to get me to come dance with her but i didnt. This past weekend me and said buddy (he has boned her) of myne went and hung out with her and her friends snd he was helpin me out, we went to this place around here that is kinda a honky tonk dance place and i started chatting her up yet again and i asked her to dance and she said she doesnt dance with guys. Even though she tried to get me too the weekend before (her friends were with her this time so i think she kinda had her anti slut shield up a little bit)

    Now to finish this story i have to tell u this one, about 2 years ago i was drunk and i asked to bum a cigarette and i told her i would buy her a whole box if she bummed me one, i never did.

    So anyway at the bar i asked to bum a cigarette and she said "u wanna buy me a beer?" i said sure and did, i brought up that old cigarette incident and she remembered and i let her know i didnt forget and i would still get her some. So anyway i try to get her to dance again and she says no so we talk a little longer and she goes out to dance with her friends so after a minute i go out there to tell her we are leaving and to try one last time at dancing and i finally talk her into dancing with me and she says " your a terrible dancer" (i told her that beforehsnd) so i said "so are you!" and she pushed me back but i could tell she was smiling and thought it was funny so i pulled her back to me and we started tslking and she said something about us dancing together cause we hate eachother and i said "we do?" and she was like "yea i thought that was the understanding" and i said " i didnt know anything about this understanding, i bought u a beer" and she said "thats cause u owed me" so i said " i dont owe u anything i was just doing that to be a nice guy" so we danced a little more and chit chatted and i told her by gsve her a hug and left. I need to know how to go about this from here on. Any ideas? Thanks!

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    Default Re: Need some help! Quick!

    Sounds like you neg'ed the sh1t out of her for way too long buddy. negs can work and they can also backfire so be careful. It sounds like she has a sort of desirable resentment towards you, which, I have in the past turned around for me. I just became her "friend" more or less. I made her laugh, showed her I was a good time, and stopped with all the NEG's. Unless they are just playful flirtation. Even though you may think a girl likes getting picked on, it might not be the case if she had an attraction towards you and all you did was pick on her.
    Again, I don't have the whole story because I am not you. Just go in at it like a) she doesn't hate you and just has this deep down weird little crush on you (think back in the high school days of those little girls who would pick on you a bit. they more than likely just had a little crush on you)... b) don't NEG. Be cocky/funny but make her laugh. Impress her with how witty and funny you can be. This will develop a sense of value to yourself... c) Don't ask her to dance, tell her to. Girls hate making decisions. Tell her to dance. Be more direct and confident instead of nervous that she hates you and you don't know what the next step is.

    You have to variate it a bit because, as I said before, you are the only one who knows your position and situation the best.

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    Default Re: Need some help! Quick!

    Thanks for the post, yea i was thinkin about the next time i see her either ignoring her and see how she reacts since we had a good night last time or just playing it cool like i did last time, not sure


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