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    Default Bartender fail

    Was doing some reconnaissance of a pool hall/bar, gauging the atmosphere and such. Super hot bartender smiles and chats me a bit, but I speak to her mostly over my shoulder and ignore the shit out of her. Shortly thereafter, slightly less hot (but still extremely attractive) bartender deliberately chats me up. I give her the same treatment, but ease into her getting a bit more of my attention, and let her have a conversation with me. Going pretty well, to the extent I start to think "wtf, am I going to end up with the hottest chick I've seen in this town (besides her coworker)?"
    She let it slip in the conversation that she has a boyfriend. Normally wouldn't phase me and I'd mostly behave as though she never said it, but it was in the context of dude being with his dying father, them having been together for 5 years.
    I wasn't sure what to do. After successfully changing the subject, I excused myself by standing up, smiling, extending my hand and saying "We'll probably never meet again, but I enjoy the sound of your voice and respect your professionalism." (a lot of her talk was about her job and how dressing like she has to for that job is better than being a Stripper. I managed to avoid looking at her breasts 100% of the time, but they were relatively exposed)...
    She replied "Aw, you could hit me up on Facebook!" (I had already started to walk away).
    I told her "I deleted my Facebook. If you wanted to stay in touch, you'd have to get to know me better." I figured this would give her about 4 seconds to be extra bold and ask for my number... of course, she did not.

    Doesn't matter that I told her we'd never meet again. It was polite and casual, and wasn't a commitment.

    But I feel like it's a lost cause. I already know bartenders are tough, much less smokin hot bartenders.

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    Default Re: Bartender fail

    Dude, Hired Guns are a different thing altogether. They're played differently than regular HB's, because they get hit on literally every ten minutes or so. Read some stuff on hired guns, THEN apply

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    Default Re: Bartender fail

    Righto. I've found a post where a poster, "nik," suggested that another poster read his thread on Hired Guns. I've searched, but cannot find that thread. I've found others that are relevant, though.
    Last edited by diabloeasy; 08-03-2011 at 05:11 PM. Reason: corrected misspelling
    Easy

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    Default Re: Bartender fail

    Quote Originally Posted by diabloeasy View Post
    Righo. I've found a post where a poster, "nik," suggested that another poster read his thread on Hired Guns. I've searched, but cannot find that thread. I've found others that are relevant, though.
    Yeah, sorry about that. I messaged you back.


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    Default Re: Bartender fail

    I tried my hand with a server girl at a different bar/ pool hall. It was tough to get a little attention because they were all pretty so I'm sure they were getting hit on very often. I worked in a few casual remarks that had one coming back a little more frequently. I never asked her to bring me anything I had to pay for... one thing was a paper towel, which I used to wipe off my table before saying "Since you weren't going to do it on your own." and put it in her HB8 friend's hand without saying anything to her. The 8 was the original target, but the one I'm mostly discussing here became something I'd settle for when the other one never came back.
    She almost seemed desperate to talk to me at some points, while my male friend and I shot pool.
    At one point I asked her who the dog tag around her neck belonged to, and she said her husband. I asked her where he was at (assuming he was deployed, as I just was) and she said "I dunno. I don't care. Maybe at the house or something. He should be up here later with a friend, maybe. It's whatever." which seemed like a go-ahead to keep it up.
    A little while later I ran short on time and knowing it was too early, I threw a Hail Mary.
    "Do you have Facebook?"
    "Yes."
    "Well, Facebook is stupid. Do you have a cell phone?"
    "Yes."
    "Why don't you put your number in my phone?" (pointing to my phone on a table on the far side of our pool table).
    "Because my husband just walked in." (she started to move away)
    "He won't notice." (calmly, but it was no good. she was gone. my friend and I left).
    Easy

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    New to the forum, where can I find the best articles and info on Gaming Hired Guns???


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