Ok, when I invite a woman to my house for dinner I know exactly what my routine is every time and 9/10 times it works like a charm.
First clean the place, get scented candles have a set of nice dishes and glasses.
Second burn a CD of slow jams you can play on the TV or anywhere else you can hear in the kitchen and dinning room.
Meal: I usually cook an easy basic Chicken Caccatore. You need 2 boneless chicken breasts. You will cook these over medium heat in butter on the stove. Add Italian spices and Diced Garlic for flavor. Once the chicken is cooked Brown on both sides, add a can of stewed tomotoes, preferrably the italian style ones. For sides I do italian style green beens and pasta roni shells and white cheddar. For wines I get Berringers White Merlot. Most women have never heard of it so you will impress her with your taste right off the bat.
Get a copy of the first episode of True Blood. This is the deal sealer.
Now have her call when she is headed over. Don't start cooking till then so when she arrives the aroma of the food is the first thing she smells. Start the music, pour her a glass of wine and tell her dinner will be ready shortly.
Get into small talk, avoid routines where you will lose track of dinner. Burning it is game over.
Once dinner is ready serve it at your dinner table. wait 2-3 songs for her to eat a little. The when a good song starts ask her to dance with you. Slow dance a bit then look into her eyes and say, "I just have to ask, how are you doing this wildy sexy yet adorably cute thing you are doing?" She will giggle then stare back into your eyes. If she keeps eye contact for 3 seconds go in for the kiss. French her for about 3-5 seconds then break away. Then say, "We better get back to dinner." sit down and resume eating and small talk. wait 2 more songs then ask her if she has seen the show True Blood. If she says yes then say you haven't and just got a copy and would she mind watching it with you. If she says no then say you either a friend recommended it and would she like to watch it. They usually say yes either way.
Now after the first bit and the theme song begins to roll, lean over and say, "hey if I get too scared can I hold your hand?" And wink. Regardless of her reply put your arm around her. She should lean into you a bit. when they show a sex scene or a vampire start to rub her neck and run your fingers through her hair. after a few minutes of that lean over and ask if she likes it when guys bite her neck. Usually they say yes to that. Say, hmm lets see and bit and kiss her neck. The kiss her. This will be a full on make out session. After a good ten minutes of rubbing and kissing, offer to take things to the bedroom. If she says no then say ok. Sit up go back to watching the show without touching her for a full minute. Then go back to rubbing her neck and kiss her neck again, make out again then just get up and offer your hand. Don't say a word just lead her to the bedroom lay her on the bed and go for it.
Done and Done.