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    Default Fraternity guy in need of some pointers. Shocking, I know.

    Lemme start with some background. We're both sophomores in college, we're both Greek (in fraternities/sororities) and there's mutual attraction going on. No hookups with her, due to her being in a long term relationship with another guy, but that mess ended a month or so ago.

    I have an on-going thing with this girl since last february. Got to know her a bit, and I asked her to my Fraternity Formal which involved going up to the Tennessee mountains in a cabin with the entire fraternity and our dates. Crazy amount of sexual Tension, it was obvious to everyone in the cabin what was going on between us. To cut to the chase, I know she's into me as more than a friend. Up until a few weeks ago, this girl was in a 2-3 year long relationship with another guy so I minimized any moves on her, and that's why I didn't hook up with her on Formal. Well, there came that one night when she broke up with her boyfriend at 3am in the middle of July and then facebook messaged me right after she put the status up. So at this point,i'm thinking to myself "great i'm in the clear, time to take it to the next level with her".

    Here's the problem.

    We just moved back to college this last week, with me living in my Fraternity house and her living in her Sorority house. Every plan to go out and party with eachother has pretty much tanked due to whatever reasons that came up, some on her end and some on mine. This is only during the span of a week, and I can already tell that her text habits have changed a bit (longer reply times, abrupt ends to conversations, etc). Might not be too big of an issue, but I notice small things and these things usually go to bigger things.

    Thing is, she knows very well that I hang out with lots of women and that lots of women flirt with me. Every time she would see me downtown at the bars, she would see me with at least 3-4 other girls at any one time. I'm not needy or clingy, and every text convo I have is always full of sexual tension and fun. Never "hey what's up", or "how are you". I'm an alpha, so being a pussy isn't the issue.

    I can't wrap my head around it but I like the girl, unlike the majority of the other girls I see and hook up with and that's why i'm posting this.

    I need some advice with texting or calling, I can handle the face to face perfectly fine. What should I be saying/doing to get her as attracted as she used to be to me? Haha, to be honest I want to land a solid hookup with this current girl and i'll be fine. Everything else will come after that.

    Ive been in this situation before with another girl, and that situation went to sh1t shortly after she showed the same signs.


    Thanks!

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    Default Re: Fraternity guy in need of some pointers. Shocking, I know.

    I think it's taking too long for her now. You're writing about weeks. Girls have time limits. As an alpha male, she expected you to come on her strong, not waiting around like an AFC. She showed interest in you and basically let you know she wants you. So go get her. Stop farking around.

    Edit: And don't get one-itis.

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    Default Re: Fraternity guy in need of some pointers. Shocking, I know.

    I got to agree. You need to just come at it with guns blazing. Tell her you are hanging out, don't make it an option. Make it a definite. Don't ask, tell (that is what I always say to people)

    From what you have done, you got the foot in the door, but don;t let her close that door. Ex's are ex's for a reason. It's your turn up to bat. Tell her you are going to take her to this or that place. It doesn't matter what it is. Just tell her. It could be shopping for junk for your room in the frat house or whatever. Even if you don't have anything you need, pretend you do. Then, take her out for a drink right after as a reward.

    A lot of woman NEVER make decisions or go forth the extra inch because they are scared to. Men are referred to as Alphas for a reason. Woman rarely will make decisions.

    I met up with a girl last night. I wasn't really 100% into it and wanted to flake out so bad but I didn't have anything else to do so I ended up hanging out with her. I asked her what a good time for her was (I was free all day but I didn't let her know of course). She was giving me all these random times and never setlled on anything. Perfect example is that. I told her, ok since you aren't making up your mind, 7 o clock, be ready. She was like ok good with me. Even if it wasn't good, she would of suggested another time like 30 minutes later or earlier or whatever. Giving the girl directions paves the way for her.

    You need to just go at it full force now. Tell her to hang out. Tell her where and when.


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