Lemme start with some background. We're both sophomores in college, we're both Greek (in fraternities/sororities) and there's mutual attraction going on. No hookups with her, due to her being in a long term relationship with another guy, but that mess ended a month or so ago.
I have an on-going thing with this girl since last february. Got to know her a bit, and I asked her to my Fraternity Formal which involved going up to the Tennessee mountains in a cabin with the entire fraternity and our dates. Crazy amount of sexual Tension, it was obvious to everyone in the cabin what was going on between us. To cut to the chase, I know she's into me as more than a friend. Up until a few weeks ago, this girl was in a 2-3 year long relationship with another guy so I minimized any moves on her, and that's why I didn't hook up with her on Formal. Well, there came that one night when she broke up with her boyfriend at 3am in the middle of July and then facebook messaged me right after she put the status up. So at this point,i'm thinking to myself "great i'm in the clear, time to take it to the next level with her".
Here's the problem.
We just moved back to college this last week, with me living in my Fraternity house and her living in her Sorority house. Every plan to go out and party with eachother has pretty much tanked due to whatever reasons that came up, some on her end and some on mine. This is only during the span of a week, and I can already tell that her text habits have changed a bit (longer reply times, abrupt ends to conversations, etc). Might not be too big of an issue, but I notice small things and these things usually go to bigger things.
Thing is, she knows very well that I hang out with lots of women and that lots of women flirt with me. Every time she would see me downtown at the bars, she would see me with at least 3-4 other girls at any one time. I'm not needy or clingy, and every text convo I have is always full of sexual tension and fun. Never "hey what's up", or "how are you". I'm an alpha, so being a pussy isn't the issue.
I can't wrap my head around it but I like the girl, unlike the majority of the other girls I see and hook up with and that's why i'm posting this.
I need some advice with texting or calling, I can handle the face to face perfectly fine. What should I be saying/doing to get her as attracted as she used to be to me? Haha, to be honest I want to land a solid hookup with this current girl and i'll be fine. Everything else will come after that.
Ive been in this situation before with another girl, and that situation went to sh1t shortly after she showed the same signs.