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    raids2 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Want her to come over

    She sent me some erotic stuff over email, like some art work lets say. We've been hanging out, haven't had sex. How do I respond? I want to ask her about it naturally, and take things to the next level.

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    Default Re: Want her to come over

    one thing women HATE is verbalizing the proposal of hooking up

    dont mention it, DO IT, ease in physically and by body language. verbalizing it is like skipping on a minefield, although there is a chance (no thank you) of making it alive

    According to my mom when she was completely inebriated, my granddad used to have this catchphrase that applied to all men, "whats the point of hanging out around perfectly good women if youre not gonna fark them?"

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    Default Re: Want her to come over

    SO it sounds like you're saying I should just invite her somewhere, and more or less not mention about what she sent.

    BTW thanks for quick reply, this is all recent.

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    Default Re: Want her to come over

    btw can we see? how erotic are we talking?

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    Default Re: Want her to come over

    Lol common get real...

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    Default Re: Want her to come over

    Quote Originally Posted by Pierrot View Post
    one thing women HATE is verbalizing the proposal of hooking up

    dont mention it, DO IT, ease in physically and by body language. verbalizing it is like skipping on a minefield, although there is a chance (no thank you) of making it alive

    According to my mom when she was completely inebriated, my granddad used to have this catchphrase that applied to all men, "whats the point of hanging out around perfectly good women if youre not gonna fark them?"
    other thenb eing dirty pierrot is right here!
    women dont want to be concieved as sluts so need the "plauseable deniability" you know when women say"it just happened" or"one thing led to another" thats them saying
    "i wanted to have sex but not let people know i wanted to have sex"
    women judge other women harshly, and ironicly too.
    so when your out simply hint at continouing the party at your place or even hint at the idea of something she may want to see, leave it open dont even offer maybe she'll do teh hard work if she really wants to be there.
    if she likes dogs for example
    "erg my mum got my a massive cuddly to dog thing the size of a damn sofa, i have no idea where to put it i cant get rid of it can i..if you saw it it woul d put you off sofa's and dogs thats for sure"
    obvisouly thats terrible jsut off the top of my head but its an example so you get the idea she could su rggest she wants to see it lol
    work on it. if shes giving youa smuch ioi's like she is, she wants to be ther, may even be fine with saying it outloud, but dont ruin the chance, surrgesst drinks go out to a nice bar talk alot get all dirty then just get up and say,

    "well im out of money but kinda still wanna drink so im going home to get one or two in, care to join me so im not drinking alone,?"
    (assume the worst)
    no - to some degree
    "heres me thinking you were a nice girl, well it was fun till you told me you were alightweight!" laugh"dont need to decline becasue your scared id find out, bless ya so cute, anyway..." leave it open
    just play by ear, i hope you see where im going with this.

    any excuse like "how would i get home?" etc can just be met with "just get ataxi or something im sure we'll figure something out its not rocket sience"

    im lucky to live in a small town, everythings in walking distance so this isnt an issue for me. theres still the issue of closing at your place but if shes this interested with her erotic pictures, then im sure yo u'll be fine.

    best of luck!

    side note; Highfives pierrot for his boldness
    "It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent, but the one most
    responsive to change." Charles Darwin

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    Default Re: Want her to come over

    Bradders: very enlightening! i threw you some rep points

    I just noticed your Darwin sig as well. it goes with MY THEORY on the key to success "adapting before nessesary". so that was heavy..

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    Default Re: Want her to come over

    thanks duke, means alot! id like to hear that theroy, Private message me it
    "It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent, but the one most
    responsive to change." Charles Darwin


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