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    Default Help switching phases

    I have been friends with a girl for a fairly long time, and we talk every once in a while, text every once in a while, but rarely meet up. We recently started getting a little bit closer, being a little more flirty and things are going good. The issue is that we were talking a little while ago, and she told me that she bought some new lingerie, and we talked about it for about an hour, and next time we hang out she told me that she will show me herself wearing it.

    My issue is that I don't want to screw this up, I figure if she wants to show herself wearing it, then she wouldn't have a problem going further, and I want to try and get more sexual when she shows me. I would like tips on what to say when she is wearing it, or beforehand if she texts or calls me, so that I can try and push something sexual to make an easier transition when we meet up. If possible, I am aiming for an f-close. If any more information is needed, I'll be glad to share for the best advice possible to get the close I want.

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    Default Re: Help switching phases

    well the ioi's are there but you need to stop the pace up otherwise she'll get board.
    easy enough to still push and pull with her, simply dont get all excited at the idea of seeing her be erotic fo r you, comment on the cloths but still flirt, so she doesnt feel the fool. she will feel uncomfortable so re-enforce it but dont come across like your a dog looking for a treat
    "yeah that looks really good!" good
    "fucking helly our hot!" bad
    becasuethis could be the risk of just getting attention so be sure here IOI's are genuin, i wouldnt like the idea of getting so close without meeting her often, otherwise it may verywell be for attention.
    when you meet, be cool, but be athoritive, neg her but re-build her too.
    your in control of the situation you see.
    make a comment about how it would be difficult to rub her back though,(i'll assume your near a bed or fuck-able area.)
    and immedietly show her what you mean(even if you can do it eaasily, pretend li ke you cant) Kino is important here, but not so much for comfort, now your creating sexual tension.
    from here sit her down bring up any reasons for the massarge thing
    "iv been reading some articles online about erotic massarge they say that you need to be able to curess the whole spine otherwise it inhibits hormones from reaching pleasure centers" besure to speak slow and witha low quiet tone, sensual momvents accompanied with the relaxing smooth tone women enjoy, when she seams to be enjoying it, pull away,
    "see too difficult, its very nice but"(move around her around to face you to still hold the power - compliance test - ) "making love to you, im sure id cope though, but i like to use all my body and use alot of movments all over so it would be hard, but to start off yeah i think i could work with it"
    here your putting the idea in her head about sex with you, hopefully comming across that your not surggesting it.

    its important you arleady have your lighting setted too, no massve bright lights or main lights, just a lamp next to your bed, dim if possible, remember if you have her here int his possition you both want this, but you still have to close with style and grace, you cant caveman it.
    well you can but i never do that, just seams pointless if you were so graceful getting her to this point ha!
    be sure not to rush anything, 15 to 45 minutes of talking unless she rushes things but dont try and hold back, remain in controll, start kino again play games. maybe have her rub you, claim it wasnt fair she got your skills or maybe if she co mplains as joke say if your better show me how its done.
    i could take you with a more detailed guide but its quite an open ended question you've asked.
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    Default Re: Help switching phases

    This is one of, if not THE biggest shit-test I've ever heard. Don't fall for it. Change gears and act disinterested.

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    Default Re: Help switching phases

    Could it still be a Sh1t Test even though I'm the one that suggested her showing me, and I would love to hear anything more specific, I really want this to work and I'm only starting to learn about the skills of a pua, you seem very interested so please to share more.

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    Default Re: Help switching phases

    dont become needy with girls, she will sense it and crave it, especally if shes doing it for attention
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    Default Re: Help switching phases

    OK, I'm still new to all of this, but if she's showing you herself in her lingerie surely that's enough of an ioi to start hooking up and then just move forward from there. If you start getting Last Minute Resistance just try a Freeze Out?? Or is this all too simplistic?

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    Default Re: Help switching phases

    @PUAmath : You asked her? Ouch. Man, that's kinda weird

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    Default Re: Help switching phases

    It's kind of complicated, I didn't just come straight out and ask, it was more implied and then she said she would show me. It happened over a long conversation, and she seemed really flirty afterwards so I took it as an ioi

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    Default Re: Help switching phases

    thats not an ioi. it is and it isnt, i wouldnt take it as one.
    yo ulook out for IOI 's to determin they are attracted to you, then you escelate from there, you cant jump straight from point a to z otherwise you risk failing in all sort of colourful ways. i surggest you read some of the PUA books so this makes sense.


    in this case though id slow down, your getting in over your head and could go very bad for you or somehow luck though it, either way is bad becasue even if you did get a lay, you wouldnt know how you did it. so slow down and take it a step slower, meet her more and gauge her interest when it seams you ARNT interested as much as you used to be. if she grows board and stagnent, then its likely she was doing it all for attention. but you can take it slow if she does like you. now you cant slow right down, but insist on meeting for a dri nk or 2 and dont talk about the idea of sex or anything like that. work on your attraction switchs, finding out what she likes and brinign up your stories that involve that etc. make her laugh, make her think, build your attraction if it doesnt take then it wasnt going to work to begin with, and certenly no amount of help will get you the lay, simply becasue with a girl that may bery well be crazy you'd need to make split second decisions. from a more experinced PUA it wouldnt be too difficult, in 30 seconds we coudl suss a girl like that and adjust the game to fit it. but right now i cant really tell you what to do becasue she is just verymuch unpredictable

    to sum up
    take her on a date, take thigns slow stop talking about sex and the like
    gauage her reactions and responses then by all means let me/us know whats happening from there.
    and dont be afraid to cut this one loose, as she may very well be psycho or an attention seeker

    best of luck
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    Default Re: Help switching phases

    Alright, I'll read more PUA books, I've read "The Game" already, do you have any suggestions on which other ones I should get a copy of?


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