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    Grasshopper is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How to initiate flings? Are women interested?

    I live in Houston, TX. Are women generally interested in flings?

    I always feel like if I ask a girl out, its implied that there is some long-term potential down the road, and that if she knew that I had no interest in the possibility of a long term relationship, they would be offended.

    However, I'm in a place in my life where I'm not interested in that, and I just want to fool around, live in the moment, and learn about the opposite sex. The last part is important because I'm not sure what qualities are important to me in a wife/long-term girl.

    Also, I imagine the type of women who are open to flings frequent nightlife, and 1)I'm not into it, 2) i don't drink and 3) as a condition of my probation, I can't go into bars/clubs. If it wasn't for 2, I'd be willing to adjust.

    Still, ideally I'd want to be myself. While I'm social, hanging out in a loud place where I can't converse and I feel out of place since everyone is drinking is disingenuous.

    So, firstly, in Houston (a little more conservative than the west and east coast) roughly what percentage of women would you say are interested in a fling? secondly, how do distinguish those who are and those who aren't? thirdly, how do I make it clear to a woman I'm just getting to know that i'm not looking for anything serious?

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    Grasshopper is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: How to initiate flings? Are women interested?

    I'm re-posting this in 'Ask an expert' as it is more appropriate there.

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    Default Re: How to initiate flings? Are women interested?

    Hey grasshopper,
    I had the same problem about a year ago and heres what i found out. First you have to remember that girls like sex just as much as men. They dont always want commitment either. The last 2 girls i laid just got out of longer relationships and just wanted to keep things casual but they were still willing to have sex, both in about 2 weeks after we started talking. Just gauge their intent when talking to them. dont be afraid to say your not looking for seriousness, because then either they walk away or they still keep coming and if they do you know your in.

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    Default Re: How to initiate flings? Are women interested?

    thanks tosh. I'll use that advice.


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