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    Ba$$Hunter is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default tips for shy girl

    I met this farking gorgeous blonde (my first HB10) at a bar a couple weekends ago. We danced and talked and I got her number. I tried the old "do you want to kiss me" when I thought the time was right (she was giving me that look) and she responded "I'm a good girl" which I took as a maybe and went for it. She didn't pull away but also didn't really reciprocate so I was basically just kissing her frozen lips which was kind of awkward.

    We texted back and forth a lot for about a week and we finally got to meet up for drinks and appetizers last week. I got some solid IOIs (willing to come out of her way to meet me, playing with her hair, stroking her glass, good eye contact, etc.) but when I walked her back to her apartment she just gave me hug goodnight before I could even go for a kiss close.

    I'm pretty sure she's into me, but just a little shy. I kind of have to work to keep conversations going when she has short responses, but she'll talk more when it gets to other subjects. I also find it weird that she is so good looking and smart but doesn't seem to have a lot of guys in her life (she always talks about stuff she does with her gfs and 95% of her facebook activity is with other females).

    Does anyone have any advice for this kind of girl? Any ideas for a second date? I was thinking something more activity based (bowling, mini golf etc) would work well with shyer girls.

    Thanks in advance

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    Ba$$Hunter is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: tips for shy girl

    Update- got her talking more with an "i just met your twin!" text (this one is pure gold). Eventually asked her to go for drinks after work tomorrow. She said she had plans and didn't give any kind of counter offer, a clear IOD.

    I'm just wondering what I could have farked up so bad since the date last Thurs, which I thought went great.

    Should I have contacted her sooner than two days after?

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    frye79 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: tips for shy girl

    Two days seems appropriate. Just dont start trying to hard because that will likely push her away. If this were me I would wait for her to contact me next, that puts the ball back in your court.


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