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    Default Possibly the strangest girl I have ever come across

    Being in college, getting with gorgeous girls is pretty damn easy. Most people with a spine would agree on that. Not to sound cocky or stuck up, but I have absolutely no problems going up to girls, using the right game, and hooking up.. pretty damn frequently. There is this one girl that's always been around though, and I have tried every imaginable idea to get physical with her. All for nothing for over a year now.

    Just to give you an idea of how this girl is.. the most ive ever gotten with her has been a f**king hug. I'm not a gal-pal by any means, and she's well aware of my social value with other people. I usually hook up with girls I meet within 1-4 days, with her its been a year. You can see why i'm scratching my damn head. It's to the point where I feel like I HAVE to have this girl.

    Some background (**If anyone has pandora's box, help would be great here**)

    - We're both 19, she's a solid 9/10 with light brown hair and light green eyes. She's moderately shy around strangers but she does open up around friends. The majority of her friends are girls, with pretty much all the guys she knows being "friends". She has a tongue ring and a belly button piercing, and wants to get a small tattoo- this makes me think she's sexually "liberated" but it's quite the opposite. She just doesn't hook up, with ANYONE. The only time she had actually made out with someone was when she was blackout. She met me through a friend last year and showed some serious initial attraction which simmered down a bit at this point. I wasn't aware of the signs back then but they were there. It's still there, she makes it obvious.

    When we go out, she flirts but then once I do some subliminal Kino she ALWAYS stops me. Whenever I get to close, same deal.

    Was she a nun in another life? I seriously think i'm dealing with a virgin that doesn't know she has a vagina. What should I do with this girl to get physical? She's intentionally or unintentionally playing hard to get to the point where it's driving a guy like me nuts. That takes a hell of a lot to do.

    EDIT:

    Recently as well, I became facebook friends with a girl that looks just like her after meeting her at a bar. Green eyes, brown hair, same face, it was almost weird how similar she was to this girl. Once she saw it on my page, she messaged me over 20 times on facebook in all caps, saying things like:

    -HEY!
    -THAT GIRL LOOKS JUST LIKE ME!
    -ARE YOU THERE!
    -I'M SO BORED
    -BORED
    -WHAT ARE YOU DOING LATER?

    sh1t like that, which is so far out of this girl's character that it doesn't make any sense. She was definitely jealous, but again I just can't figure her out.

    Help would be fantastic
    Last edited by Onyx; 10-09-2011 at 11:34 PM.

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    Default Re: Possibly the strangest girl I have ever come across

    That is really strange. It is even more strange that she admitted to stalking you on facebook LOOKING at who you are becoming friends with. That is just creepy dude. She definitely sounds like a prude though. Have you tried to take her out on a legitimate date before? I mean have you asked her?

    I don't do "dates" or really endorse them, but I am just wondering how much interest you have shown to her. Also the fact that she was blowing you up through IM is also strange.

    I agree that she is a little wierd, but I think she is just sexually very inexperienced.
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    Default Re: Possibly the strangest girl I have ever come across

    I have taken her a few times, she always insists on splitting the bill but of course I wouldn't let that happen. Still nothing. I seriously don't think she knows what a male sexual figure is like.

    I don't have one-Otis, but she's so weird it's making me pay attention to her

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    Default Re: Possibly the strangest girl I have ever come across

    You might want to just move on to someone that doesn't send mixed signals. It's just going to get more frustrating all the time. I dated a girl like that, I think maybe she was molested or something. Yes, very wierd.

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    Default Re: Possibly the strangest girl I have ever come across

    Quote Originally Posted by In The Tropics View Post
    I agree that she is a little wierd, but I think she is just sexually very inexperienced. Maybe you should try to get her drunk since that is the only time she has put out. Its worth a shot, take her to a kegger or something and try to escalate Kino when she is a little more loose.
    Wow. Ok time for some tough love here and I hate to do this but I think it needs to be said. This girl has obviously stated that she has objections to physical contact, while this is a barrier that can be torn down, getting her drunk in order to get a quick fix to the situation is not only wrong, its also illegal in most states. So lets not do that, and not even endorse that.
    Here is my suggestion: Sounds to me like this girl sees you as a player and she doesnít want to just be another notch on your bed post. I imagine that this girl is the type of girl who looks for relationship, not a quickie. So if you really want to get with her then youíre going to have to foster both those emotions and actions to her. She is looking for security and comfort, if I had to guess. These are two very common attraction switches that when pushed properly can really drive a women wild. You donít need to worry about your Social Status with this chick, she has already seen it. Worry about building some serious comfort and show her that youíre not going to push her too far too fast and that you are willing to wait for what you both want. Then when it comes time for it be patient with her, if she says slow down, then slow down and pace where youíre at for a little while then try to escalate again. This is going to take time, not going to be quick, and not going to be easy.
    You can also try this: next time yall go out when she says she will split the bill, call her on it. Split the bill. The only way things are going to change is if you do something different.
    Goodluck let us know if we can be any more help

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    Default Re: Possibly the strangest girl I have ever come across

    Quote Originally Posted by tcomea2 View Post
    Wow. Ok time for some tough love here and I hate to do this but I think it needs to be said. This girl has obviously stated that she has objections to physical contact, while this is a barrier that can be torn down, getting her drunk in order to get a quick fix to the situation is not only wrong, its also illegal in most states. So lets not do that, and not even endorse that.
    Here is my suggestion: Sounds to me like this girl sees you as a player and she doesnít want to just be another notch on your bed post. I imagine that this girl is the type of girl who looks for relationship, not a quickie. So if you really want to get with her then youíre going to have to foster both those emotions and actions to her. She is looking for security and comfort, if I had to guess. These are two very common attraction switches that when pushed properly can really drive a women wild. You donít need to worry about your Social Status with this chick, she has already seen it. Worry about building some serious comfort and show her that youíre not going to push her too far too fast and that you are willing to wait for what you both want. Then when it comes time for it be patient with her, if she says slow down, then slow down and pace where youíre at for a little while then try to escalate again. This is going to take time, not going to be quick, and not going to be easy.
    You can also try this: next time yall go out when she says she will split the bill, call her on it. Split the bill. The only way things are going to change is if you do something different.
    Goodluck let us know if we can be any more help

    Yeah, that didn't really com off the way I meant for it to. I meant she just might be more receptive in general and it might be easier to get something started with this girl. I didn't mean that he should try to date rape her. But I totally see what you are saying, and good point. Thanks for keeping me in check on that one. I edited the last post because that is by far not the best advice I have given. My mistake.

    I will say I think that another girl might be a better option though. This one sounds like she is going to be a lot of work.
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    Default Re: Possibly the strangest girl I have ever come across

    It's amazing how well friends can help with girls. I was introduced to this girl through a friend, the same one who told me some important advice about her tonight (while me and him were with 3 other girls we had met).

    1- She apparently DOES have plenty of hookup experience, but she's damn good at protecting her reputation. If it got past me then she's good, seeing as if I want a girl I will want to know everything about her. This guy told me to shut up as he pulled out his phone and showed me a few texts she sent him about me.

    They went something like this: "I would love to hook up with him but i'm not that easy". Word for damn word.

    2- She may have an "interest" overseas. seeing as she is Middle eastern coming here for college, I don't doubt it. From my experience, relationships don't mean anything if a girl shows a specific, habitually flirty personality. For example- some girls I meet with this same personality type will tell me they have a BF, only to pull my shirt and make out with me 15 mins later. Before you guys say she might have a cultural difference, I have a similar background given that my parents are both Egyptian with me being born and raised here in the states. People wouldn't ever guess i'm middle eastern though, most guess white. Same with her, her complexion is exremely.. white. Pretty damn attractive. anyways, side track.


    I'll change up my game a bit for her, or when i'm around her. My game is solid with the girls I meet right now, but she's pretty damn different.


    I don't like changing what works, any advice?
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    Default Re: Possibly the strangest girl I have ever come across

    Review the pandora's box program especially chapter 11. Any idea what her guesses as to what her type is? I have a few in mind.


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