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    chronic-optimist is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Stuck - Next Move

    Okay, this morning I was making out with the hottest girl at my college, I thought everything was going good until she stopped and said she felt weird because we were so close I was like her brother. Before today me and her had become friends but had recently drifted apart. Last night we were talking about how we both were getting bored with the same people and needed to switch it up. I noted that we are both in the same situations and should kill two birds with one stone. But now that things were finally going somewhere and she stopped because It felt weird. I think I might have sunk to far into the friend zone and its hard to get her to see me sexually. Im not sure how to get out of this zone. Because now I know that she wants me, but Im just to much her friend. What's my next move?
    "Let women figure out why they won’t screw you, don’t do it for them.”

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    Vigomaniac is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Stuck - Next Move

    I think the first question is what do you want to get from this girl? Do you see her as a possible girlfriend or just someone you wanna get with because she's that hot? There's nothing wrong with either reason but I would definitely approach it differently depending on my agenda.

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    Default Re: Stuck - Next Move

    yeah, girlfriend or make out session. your choice. of course you want to go for the non-consequential lay and my advice is this: hook up with another chick and make the current one jealous. Roll Off her, show IOD's. you're putting her on a pedestal. you're begging. she's the one that ought to be begging for you. careful not to get one-itis. it happens fairly quickly. i know one-itis when i see it because i had it with these two girls for over a decade (met them in kindergarten and eventually got some headway in high school but nothing since). but it was two-itis. keep rolling and pushing. pull her in when comfortable and satisfied for her desperate need for your attention. don't overqualify though. that's my biggest mistake these days.

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    chronic-optimist is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Stuck - Next Move

    I just want to get with her cause shes hot. Im not one for relationships. And I agree with beenderew about how I should rolll off her and show IOD's
    "Let women figure out why they won’t screw you, don’t do it for them.”

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    Vigomaniac is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Stuck - Next Move

    I agree that if you want to just get with her, you should probably make her a little bit jealous. I might try a little Push Pull with her. Just when she thinks you might be interested, pull it away and talk about something about else. Either way, beenderew is right. Don't put her on a pedestal. She has to know you have options and you need to exercise those options. One hot girl isn't worth the trouble.

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    Default Re: Stuck - Next Move

    not sure about how ur gonna go about banging another chick to make this one jealous. But if you can, Kudos!

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    Default Re: Stuck - Next Move

    Freeze her out. Make her earn your attention back.


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