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    ColinNYC1 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Friend Zone problema

    Hey everyone,

    My name is Colin. I go to school in NYC where I met an HB who I have Spanish class with. We met early in the semester(sept), at the time we both were in relationships. She is 21 and was dating the owner of jets.com who is 36 and a millionaire(who cares?). I am 23, veteran of the USAF and a college student.
    Over the past few months we spent a lot of time together talking, chilling, (420). She even brought me out with her friends one time. Early on when we met she tried to hook me up with a friend(which i told her that if I cheat on my gf it would be with you, jokingly). Now time has passed and we are both single. We both helped each other with our relationship drama and have a certain connection.

    I have her feeling completely comfortable around me. I applied standard techniques from Style and Mystery. Never gave her my real intentions.

    Today we hung out after class, I told her how I took out a new date over the weekend to a comedy club and how beautiful this girl was.(true story). She responded shortly after about how she has been talking to some guy she met through a friend and is so crazy about?

    BOTTOM Line: I am stuck in friendzone and I dont want to make the wrong move. I am just looking to hook up

    Help
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    Default Re: Friend Zone problema

    Getting out of the friend zone is one of the hardest things to do with a girl in my opinion. One because you don't want this person out of your life if you screw it up and 2. its so hard to change a girl's impression of you once she has made it.

    What I would do is try to hang out with just you two. You could try using an eye contact test and when talking just look her in the eye and trail off. If she holds the gaze with you its definitely an ioi and its likely you will have a chance. If she looks away right away, chances do not look so good. I would use that as an indicator whether or not to move forward or not. You have to remember not to get really into this girl because then things can only go downhill for you because you will care too much about her feelings/reactions.

    Best of luck with your situation

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    ColinNYC1 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Friend Zone problema

    Thanks for the reply Longhorn, I am determined to lay this girl. I feel that i am at a good point. I can tell she is into me with her suttle remarks. The only problem is finding the right time and place. I will let u know how it plays out

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    Default Re: Friend Zone problema

    The thing about the friendzone is that the girl obviously likes you since she is spending so much time with you. That doesn't mean she's attracted to you sexually. If you've talk about each others relationships that's generally not a good sign.


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