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    TheBattleBot is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Failing to Escalate! Please Give Advice!

    So I went on a date the ther night and it went great! We had dinner, and hit a bar afterwards. Lots of Kino, flirting, touching and hand grabbing going on, and all initiated by her. She suggests we go grab some beers and go to her place. Should be an easy close right?

    Well we get back to her place and are drinking, talking, carrying on with the physical touching, and holding hands, cuddling on the couch etc. It starts to get really late, and she was kind of falling asleep on me. I tell her I should bounce and before I leave try for a kiss as we were laying on the couch. She didn't pull away, but didn't really kiss back either. Might have been kind of awkward, but whatever. I try again at the door before I leave and she sort pecks me back, but nothing too crazy.

    At this point I'm thinking it's all good. I like this girl, and maybe sex right away is better in the long run.

    Get a txt the next day that she wants to hang out again that same night and she wants me to come over. I say cool, I'll be over after work. (probably made myself too available here and should have blown her off looking back)

    This night does not go as well. I greet her with a hug, we chill for a bit, talking a little, some touching, a little cuddling on the couch but nothing really like the night before. I leave later that night and just give her a hug, with no attempt at a kiss.

    Should I have tried to kiss her agian? I wasn't getting the same vibe as before? The first night she did make some sexually insinuative comments that I clearly missed and did nothing to escalate, but the second night I did not get as many. Is there any way I can start escalating things now so that the next time we hang out it will be a lot more physical? All feedback is appreciated.

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    Iamtheattack is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Failing to Escalate! Please Give Advice!

    You're in a situation where she was very wild back when she was partying but now it's all casual she isn't the same.

    You need to slowly escalate things. If there is another party coming up that is a perfect time to take things sexual but for now just slowly escalate things hand touching, hugs, playing with her hair, and etc.

    Good luck by Mike.

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    Default Re: Failing to Escalate! Please Give Advice!

    Dude, you missed your window. You have two options be patient and wait and see what develops or you could redline the engine, game her and bombshell her like a champ. See my bombshell thread for what I'm talking about.

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    Default Re: Failing to Escalate! Please Give Advice!

    I completely agree with Sauve, I think the only reason she invited you back the next night was cause she wanted to have sex.


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