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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    I've Been using your BF Destroyer for quite a while now, with T-Mals Advice aswell (Amazing coach by the way)

    Basically i've been talking to this girl overseas (she does have a boyfriend)
    She went silent for about a week and came back saying how the boyfriend was getting angry and jealous, that he didn't know what was going on and said he doesn't trust me (haha)

    "to be fully honest my bf is jealous, so i deleted snapchat cuz he checks it and sees you and just so uh..."

    "I don't want to get in the middle of you and your boyfriend... That seems to be what happened here, so I'm gonna back off for a bit, unless you still want to chat. If so, then you know how to get ahold of me ;3 "

    "We can talk here but i wont come on as often anymore"

    "ah i see, well not sure why your bf would not let you talk to friends that happen to be male
    i don't understand that really, but you should come on often ;3
    i have plenty of stories to tell!"

    "I understand him tho, he doesnt know what we are talking bout and he doesnt trust you and he hates u callin me (Nickname) Fuzzball "

    "well thats cute, ill still keep calling you witchygirl ;3 "

    and then she changed the subject, left after a while and hasn't responded Yet, Probably the jealous boyfriend of course.

    Xavier, what would you advice?

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    "I don't want to get in the middle of you and your boyfriend... That seems to be what happened here, so I'm gonna back off for a bit, unless you still want to chat. If so, then you know how to get ahold of me ;3 "
    Solid ! but you did show her you were too available, but our goal now is to destroy the bf and not pump the attraction.

    "ah i see, well not sure why your bf would not let you talk to friends that happen to be male
    i don't understand that really, but you should come on often ;3
    i have plenty of stories to tell!"
    also too available and a bit needy, don't you have friends to tell your stories too?

    and then she changed the subject, left after a while and hasn't responded Yet, Probably the jealous boyfriend of course.

    Xavier, what would you advice?
    You already answered yourself. I have a question for you why didn't you go through with it directly ? she opened the door for you. You should have torn him appart. Don't miss another chance like this, you have rapport. So it won't be hard to get such a chance again, especially if you stear the conversation in that direction.

    On a side note beware the friend zone! Friend zone her ass before she does you, add to these needy and too available texts something like you're like a sister to me that x I don't know something funny. In a hurry, but wanted to answer.

    Nothing but love,

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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    Quote Originally Posted by xavier View Post
    Solid ! but you did show her you were too available, but our goal now is to destroy the bf and not pump the attraction.



    also too available and a bit needy, don't you have friends to tell your stories too?


    You already answered yourself. I have a question for you why didn't you go through with it directly ? she opened the door for you. You should have torn him appart. Don't miss another chance like this, you have rapport. So it won't be hard to get such a chance again, especially if you stear the conversation in that direction.

    On a side note beware the friend zone! Friend zone her ass before she does you, add to these needy and too available texts something like you're like a sister to me that x I don't know something funny. In a hurry, but wanted to answer.

    Nothing but love,

    Xavier

    Thanks Xavier! Will Keep In Mind, Won't miss another Destroying opportunity.

    She knows i am interested in her, so i dont really understand How friend zoning her would benefit, calling her my sister and so forth, if you can fill me in about that it would be great!
    Thanks Either way, Appriciate the advice

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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    Quote Originally Posted by FromBoyToMan View Post
    Thanks Xavier! Will Keep In Mind, Won't miss another Destroying opportunity.

    She knows i am interested in her, so i dont really understand How friend zoning her would benefit, calling her my sister and so forth, if you can fill me in about that it would be great!
    Thanks Either way, Appriciate the advice
    When you friend zone her first it will forbid her from being the one friend zoning you
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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    Quote Originally Posted by xavier View Post
    When you friend zone her first it will forbid her from being the one friend zoning you
    Ill be sure to do that next time, thanks Xavier!

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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    Hey all,

    Thanks in advance for reading the long post but I'm really at a loss as to what to do here.

    I'm an organic PUA, meaning I gained all my game through trial and lots of error, and piano playing. Girls haven't been a problem until last year, when I had a 2-3 year long battle with bipolar depression turn for the worse. About a month into my senior year, during one of my peaks, I met this amazing chick - probs about a HB7-8, with D cups on a slim 5'3 frame and an ass to die for. I ran my usual dhv through piano, some push-pulls and boom we were on a date, F-closed by third date. But then I hit a low and this chick totally saw me through, put up with a ton of shit and neediness and depression shit over a couple months, a lot over text and skype cuz we're in different years and classes. Just as I started to dig myself out of that particular trough, we had some small texting argument about her flaking on me halfway through a football game (which had been the first date for about two weeks)and I said something like "this isn't working" and that broke us up, which ended up sending me dangerously low. Two days later I see her back with her ex LTR, apparently they'd broken up right before she started seeing me.

    Her LTR is honestly no comparison to me, and I'm not just being cocky. I'm 6'1, 177 lbs of muscle, play piano, run cross country, do some gymnastics on the side, am on academic scholarship and bench 250. He's a skinny 5'6 Asian, and isn't all that good looking either. They do have some things in common- anime and cello, mostly- but not that much.

    Basically, I'm wondering if bf destroyer would work on her. She still smiles at me, we ended on supposedly good terms for her, and she agreed to do me a drawing I needed for a tat without hesitation (she's a semiprofessional artist). I've shook my depression and spent the last 5 months trying to forget her (which I normally do quite easily... My morals are admittedly loose and my game is tight) but I can't seem to stop thinking about her and got scary close to saying the wrong name during an F-close the other night. Maybe she was my first LTR and that's why, maybe she saw my worst and stuck with me but idk. I'm pretty sure her LTR is that way cuz she leads the relationship and she does have a little emotional baggage.

    Do I go again on this merry-go-round and use this technique, or do I get back to what I'm good at? Would this even work?

    Thanks
    Calais

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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    Her LTR is honestly no comparison to me, and I'm not just being cocky. I'm 6'1, 177 lbs of muscle, play piano, run cross country, do some gymnastics on the side, am on academic scholarship and bench 250. He's a skinny 5'6 Asian, and isn't all that good looking either. They do have some things in common- anime and cello, mostly- but not that much.
    It's good that you have high self esteem, I'm feeling it. Pointing out that he is Asian means that you think that the fact that he is Asian is a dlv which is border line racist...be careful with what you say. If you read the initial post carefully you will see that I said that it is imperative to not dis the bf and have no negativity towards him. Note that she may have an Asian fetish...who knows ?

    but I can't seem to stop thinking about her and got scary close to saying the wrong name during an F-close the other night. Maybe she was my first LTR and that's why, maybe she saw my worst and stuck with me but idk. I'm pretty sure her LTR is that way cuz she leads the relationship and she does have a little emotional baggage.
    I didn't understand what you meant when you said the other night... She's cheating on her BF with you ??? As for the other shit all girls will stick by you at your lowest, if they have feelings for you that's why they're awesome and why I love them all...

    Would this even work?
    Fuck yeah it will...Do it... don't hesitate
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    Lol that wasn't racist merely description... I'm half Asian myself.

    I was F-closing another Puerto Rican chick when I got close to saying Holly (my ex's fake name).

    She's a bit of an otaku/manga nut, so that could be it. They do spend time together in some cello choir thing too.

    Any tips on discreetly deducing which pandora's box line ? She broke up with her bf once before dating me so obviously the relationship isn't perfect.

    Thanks!

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    Quote Originally Posted by CalaisK View Post
    Lol that wasn't racist merely description... I'm half Asian myself.

    I was F-closing another Puerto Rican chick when I got close to saying Holly (my ex's fake name).

    She's a bit of an otaku/manga nut, so that could be it. They do spend time together in some cello choir thing too.

    Any tips on discreetly deducing which pandora's box line ? She broke up with her bf once before dating me so obviously the relationship isn't perfect.

    Thanks!
    Yeah sure man but don't pollute my thread ask in a new one awith details about the girl and pm me the link to it. Btw i think there is an online free test to know what type of girl you have...it was done by vin di carlo the guy who created the pandora's box
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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    Uhh the last reply here was still April but hopefully someone responds. Currently I just met a girl I really like and she just got back with her GF. Their still not that stable so I'll be trying to get her. Hopefully you guys can help me. Anyway am new here aswell and still learning the ropes. Thanks


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