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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    Quote Originally Posted by xavier View Post
    I am going to wright an e-book!
    Just so you know, Xavier, when I used your BF Destroyer Technique recently I was faced to the fact that I had to do it my own way. My take on your technique was to realize that the basics of the technique was simply that you have to DEFEND the boyfriend as the girl is talking about his shortcomings.

    I guess it's reverse psychology at its simplest form. I'm writing this because I think your BF destroyer routine kicks asses, but in the bottom line some situations can come up later or earlier in the convo and I think it's important for the PUA to get the idea that the technique is basically defending the BF and then showing how the PUA would be acting differently, and so that he and the girl are more alike, that they share the same values etc.

    I'm just throwing some ideas to help you make your chapter on the BF destroyer more in depth

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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    Quote Originally Posted by xavier View Post
    What LockDown posted is so true and i would just like to add this:
    Is there a perfect relationship? No
    Is there a truly secure enough girl to not be worried about the little things in her relationship? No
    Then all relationships can be destroyed.
    I find that they dont even need to be destroyed. Half the married girls around will like a guy just paying attention to them. Especially if u Kino early... its like no guy will touch them because they're married. They probably dont even remember what a soft, sensual touch from another man feels like anymore lol.

    What if you just want some fun... nothing serious or a ONS? Whats a good way to frame that? As in, u dont want to make her leave her husband and marry u ... u want to have your fun then let her go back to him like it never happened?

    Sorry if this off topic.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ronthepen View Post
    Just so you know, Xavier, when I used your BF Destroyer Technique recently I was faced to the fact that I had to do it my own way. My take on your technique was to realize that the basics of the technique was simply that you have to DEFEND the boyfriend as the girl is talking about his shortcomings.

    I guess it's reverse psychology at its simplest form. I'm writing this because I think your BF destroyer routine kicks asses, but in the bottom line some situations can come up later or earlier in the convo and I think it's important for the PUA to get the idea that the technique is basically defending the BF and then showing how the PUA would be acting differently, and so that he and the girl are more alike, that they share the same values etc.

    I'm just throwing some ideas to help you make your chapter on the BF destroyer more in depth
    Of course i know that :P. I've also talked about this in the first paragraphe of this thread, the e-book will be even more explanatory i'm already putting the layout and i'm thinking of doing three parts one before u start pick up (what is the art, how it started, why it works, the Mindset, innergame, the clothes, vocab ...............) the pick up (full of techniques, conversing skills, Kino Escalation......) after the pick up (day 2, texting, getting a gf, getting a fwb......) maybe i'll put bullet points for each technique and then explain each one in depth and how to adjust them to different types of women.
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    @ LockDown
    It is alittle but don't u mind.
    Easy, you don't make a big deal about the fact that she's married, you just keep escalating slowly but surely compliance test to the max. If you encounter any resistence, you back off cool down go back for it from the start.
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    Sorry... thats not my question. I guess i explained it wrong. What i mean is when u already fclosed and she is so into u that she talks about leaving her man or getting divorced?

    How do u get across that the sex 'just happened' and that the two of you shouldnt persue anything serious? I guess dhv for the guy she's with? Tell her he is better for her? Basically, you really have no interest in getting serious but she does...
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    Quote Originally Posted by LockDown View Post
    Sorry... thats not my question. I guess i explained it wrong. What i mean is when u already fclosed and she is so into u that she talks about leaving her man or getting divorced?

    How do u get across that the sex 'just happened' and that the two of you shouldnt persue anything serious? I guess dhv for the guy she's with? Tell her he is better for her? Basically, you really have no interest in getting serious but she does...
    Wow u're a real homewrecker :P.
    Simply just tell her the truth. Or think about what u would have done in u're AFC days:
    -dlv urself
    -speak badly about the husband
    -become needy (which is a super dlv and definate turn off)
    -if all else fails : tell her u love her just kiding don't ever do that
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    Do a tedd mosby pf how i met your mother " I think I'm in love with you" on first date
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    Great thread, a lot of girls I speak to say "they're kind of seeing someone.." (Mr Grey?). I'd often say - AFC mode - "that's a shame..." and move on.
    These BF Destroyer techniques are great.

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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    Another situation that is related to bf destroyer that i ran into today... need the Xman's take on it.

    Girl at work ... HB8... has this guy who has been on her since she got hired. Girl was not easy to read ... in fact, turns out she was pretty boring. When i started PUA stuff, i threw everything i had at her... and she responded... even giving me kino when i isolated! Always thought she was untouchable but after awhile she kept giving me ioi daily. Turns out i only liked her for the assumed untouchabilty she had over me. Once i got to see her alone, i realized how shallow and boring she is.

    So anyway, the other still clings on her constantly... visits her everyday ... so friendzoned (if only i could tell him). Just to play, i saw them together today and after saying hi and stuff, i said, 'Man, i always thought its so cool how close you guys are. I always think of you guys as a really close brother and sister'

    He did not like this but was silent... she smiled and thanked me.

    Would that sort of count as a destroyer? I assume he gets no play from her because i've heard about his "game" back when i was an AFC and it was pretty weak. But i was wondering if he WAS her steady if my statement might sow seeds of doubt about his romance potential OR maybe even cause him to devalue himself.
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    Before i answer, I am going to analyze the situation for you and/or others that might be in it and stumble upon this thread because i am in it right now actually. She's probably a TDR from Pandora's box, he's an orbiter a guy that is in the friend zone that does not know it and he stays there because he thinks that he will ultimately get some. What an idiot! He will probably fall in love with her bad soon, that is if he hasn't yet. So my advice to you is to keep the dhv up don't mind him, he has NO chance in hell and
    To answer your questions:
    -yes keep hitting him with comments like that so that he'll understand and piss off, not just for you for him too.
    -Theese sort of comments will show her u are secure and u have no probleme with her independance (do i need to explain y?) wich is a massive dhv and great alpha male trait.
    -yes this might cause him to dlv himself and/or even come out to her with his feelings.
    But i was wondering if he WAS her steady if my statement might sow seeds of doubt about his romance potential OR maybe even cause him to devalue himself.
    To be honest i didn't really understand this do u mean that if she was interested in him would this have worked?
    if so:
    -he will dlv only if he is insecure
    -u have to make her think he thinks that in a subconscious way in order to destroy him.
    -I predict, if they both have interest in each other, after u hit them with that line they (or only she if he has a strong frame) will look at each other (look at him even if it's with the corner of her eye in a subtle way) and make them both think about what u said and it may spark up a "so what's the deal with us convo?" wich may lead to a relationship. So NO
    Note:-Try to make urself more comprehensible my english isn't too goodly
    -You better rep me for this
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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