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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    here is a generic boyfriend destroyer that I use all the time when a girl tells me she has a man. "That's awesome, (pause) he can clean our house and watch our kids when we get married" That's one that David Deangelo deserves credit for.

    The purpose of a bf destroyer of that type isn't to magically make the girl want to break up with her girlfriend, rather it serves to show that you are unaffected by her objection to your advances and it also demonstrates a strong frame.

    Usually when I use a cocky funny type bf destroyer, the mood of the girl im trying to talk to is a lot different the next time around.

    Remember, It is important to realize the reasons a girl would bring up her boyfriend in the first place. 90% of the time, the only reason a girl would mention a boyfriend to you is if you displayed too much attraction. For example: If you run bad game, a women whose not attracted to you can mention a non existing boyfriend just to ward you off. ON the other hand, if you run solid game, she may not mention a bf even if she DOES have one. The other 10% of the time, a girl will tell you she has a bf just to take the guilt off of her for anything that happens moving forward.



    Ross Jefferies has some interesting bf destroyers designed to plant a seed of doubt in the girls mind about the man she is dating. I personally don't use any of Ross's dirty mind rape NLP shit but you might want to look some up.

    Ultimately, the point is this: Whether a girl tells you she has a boyfriend or not is irrelevant, it usually just means that you telegraphed too much interest too early on. YOu need to be unaffected by it and you need her to feel that you are unaffected by it. That's the only way to keep yourself in the game





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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    Hell yeah, Ross Jeffrey is the man!!! Do you have the link to his bf destroyers?

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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    Does BF Destroyer work on exes too?

    I have this HB just can't forget her ex bf, wants to get back with him every time they break up. But the guy keeps messing with her feelings. As soon as they break up the guy chickens out, starts to apologize his butt off and wins her heart back and damn she just can't move on.

    Could I use a line like? : "Oh yeah, your ex must be a great guy, you two should totally get back together..."
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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    Yes absolutely. Works on exes easily.

    I'm nervous X... gonna try this on a LESBIAN. Let u know how it goes lol.

    (I have thread in member lounge about it also)
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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    Quote Originally Posted by LockDown View Post
    Yes absolutely. Works on exes easily.

    I'm nervous X... gonna try this on a LESBIAN. Let u know how it goes lol.

    (I have thread in member lounge about it also)
    -He's right it does work on exes.
    -hahahahah I hope it goes well.
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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    I'm texting this girl who has a bf and we did hangout a couple days ago, but how do I go about asking her out in a way that doesn't put me in the friend zone?

    There's attraction there and I want to continue the bf destroyer as long as it takes to get with her in the long run, not just for one night.

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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    Quote Originally Posted by LockDown View Post
    Yes absolutely. Works on exes easily.

    I'm nervous X... gonna try this on a LESBIAN. Let u know how it goes lol.

    (I have thread in member lounge about it also)
    Quote Originally Posted by xavier View Post
    -He's right it does work on exes.
    -hahahahah I hope it goes well.
    Can you guys explain how it can possibly work on exes? The whole point of a BF destroyer is to break resistance that comes from having a BF. While the general technique of using positive logical increments to show how a thought is irrational can obviously be applied to an ex, the process would not be the same with an ex as it is with a current BF.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    They are basically contradicting themselves. They are called exes for a reason, unless you can manage to work on what went wrong the first time
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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    You can't you have to just seem like a friend. You have to catch her off -guard.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    They are basically contradicting themselves. They are called exes for a reason, unless you can manage to work on what went wrong the first time
    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    Can you guys explain how it can possibly work on exes? The whole point of a BF destroyer is to break resistance that comes from having a BF. While the general technique of using positive logical increments to show how a thought is irrational can obviously be applied to an ex, the process would not be the same with an ex as it is with a current BF.
    Dear assholes who know nothing about psychology,
    The title is bf destroyer because that is it's primary use. But, if you were to read and understand what this is doing you would know that this makes the other guy seem like he weakest most unattractive guy in the world thus making him undesirable anymore. This will work on any guy the girl has feelings for including an ex she can't seem to get over.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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