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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    One time I even used a BF destroyer on a girl and it still worked.

    Basically, she wondered why it didn't work out with her ex. I ran the idea that he was too comfortable in the relationship... like they were bros and sister. Turns out that she took the role of leader in the relationship (planning dates, taking care of his errands etc). But she had been getting tired of doing that. So I flipped it and said "oh I see. So maybe you were the one who got tired and didn't want to work at it anymore. Maybe you became a little lazy and they couldn't handle not being led."

    So it was like I devalued the ex while at the same time showing her that maybe she got complacent at her leadership role.
    Women love to hear feedback about themselves. Also, they like when guys give them ideas on how to improve themselves.

    Then I explained how I've always been able to take the lead in a relationship and even share it at times. Something that told her I am OK with her taking thelead but also i am naturally going to take the lead most times. I gave her the freedom to lead but reassured her that i will lead if she doesnt.
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    Exclamation Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    Hey wat if she agrees with you and doesn't have anything bad to say about I don't know wat to do ?

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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    She must REALLY like him lol... but I could be wrong lol
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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    Quote Originally Posted by damion824 View Post
    Hey wat if she agrees with you and doesn't have anything bad to say about I don't know wat to do ?
    She must be still in the honey moon phase of the relationship, that will surely end in due time.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    Alright now I think I might need the bf destroyer. I want this girl to break up with her bf( she really likes him though)
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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    I'm just hoping to get some help thanks

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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    marvilo, do NOT callously use this technique, it will bite you in the ass. Find other girls to game if at all possible.

    I used it tonight, but I genuinely love this girl, I know she loves me, and I know I'm the best guy for her. Plus he beats her and all around treats her pretty crappy, and I know she wants to leave him she is just scared to.

    I don't just want to screw this girl, I want to make her my woman. THAT is the difference and purpose of this technique.

    Otherwise good luck, it isn't as easy to execute as it sounds on paper.
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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    This technique can be used for anything. It doesn't matter if you want a date or a LTR. Don't judge others' reasons for using this.

    Also, it isn't that hard. Like all things it takes practice. To make it easier, use qualities you actually have. It makes it more natural.

    Ex when talking about the BF having no passion... I am adventerous but not in any huge way. So I go with my stronger trait of seduction. After I tell her that "your BF is so comfortable right now. He thinks of you like a sister. That level of comfort is great blah blah." I say, " its not like me. I'm weird. Every day to me is a new seduction. I act like I've never seen my girl before. Like I have to seduce her all over again, find new places to take her etc. I'm pretty random like that haha."

    It comes off waaaay more natural if you use real life stuff that u do well.
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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    I disagree LockDown, just because this technique can be used for many reasons doesn't mean it should be. If you want to go out and flat out ruin a relationship or make a woman live with guilt just so you could get your nut, then by all means do so, but if I am to perpetuate anything on here it would be to hold yourself to a high moral standard in your actions.

    I don't want some good hearted guy running around with guilt just because he wants to catch a nut.

    I was actually thinking more on this though, and I do agree with you it isn't my place to judge the morality of the person's motives, only they can do that, so very good point there as well.
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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    Quote Originally Posted by xavier View Post
    Dear assholes who know nothing about psychology,
    The title is bf destroyer because that is it's primary use. But, if you were to read and understand what this is doing you would know that this makes the other guy seem like he weakest most unattractive guy in the world thus making him undesirable anymore. This will work on any guy the girl has feelings for including an ex she can't seem to get over.
    Haha, a guy asks an honest question on here and you call him an asshole. Classy.
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