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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    man, honestly i dont think its as simple as she's a whore....she f'ed up and f'ed up in a big way. that doesn't make what she did ok, in fact there's absolutely no excuse for it. but i have spent enough time with this girl to know she's not rotten totally to the core, only wasn't willing to commit to me and change her ways, and that's her loss really in the long run.

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    Beleive what you will but, don't come to me for my opinion and then argue it.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    fair enough i respect your opinion although I disagree. she strayed, she strayed with me because I attracted her more than this guy who has kept up an online relationship with her wiht lots of promises but has only come once or twice a year to be with her for a few weeks at a time. all very bizarre and a f'ed up result of the third world and lack of opportunities here in my opinion.

    while she chose to end it with me, and that was probably for the better, and i don't anticipate that she's coming back, nor am i sure I want her to after all that dishonesty for nearly 5 months (I never knew about the guy, thought she was single), my question stands on how to approach that situation. probably won't help me any with this situation nor do I intend to pursue any girls knowingly that have bfs. but maybe it helps in the future with me or someone else.

    but the question stands if you get into a relationship with a girl and then she drops a bomb like she's supposed to marry another guy but would rather be with you, short of walking away, how do you play it?

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    In that situation you can't play it short. She either chooses to be happy with you or not. You can take a horse to water but you can't force it to drink.
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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    the take the horse to water but can't force it to drink is actually exactly right.

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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    Two quick questions:
    1. With which one do you start. How do you decide?
    2. What do you do if she never mentions her bf although I know she has one?

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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    Quote Originally Posted by Tow View Post
    Two quick questions:
    1. With which one do you start. How do you decide?
    2. What do you do if she never mentions her bf although I know she has one?
    1. You ask how long have you guys been going out
    A-HB( in LTR): OMG you're going to be married with lots of babies soon. Oh c'mon you're obviously so in love with him. He's big tall....
    B-HB(in STR): continue your game normally then get the number with the yes ladder
    2.A-She's afraid of change and/or something else is stopping her from investing (Distance, a dlv from you...). That's why she's not dumping him yet.
    B-She's a whore.
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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    In another thread a while back, a couple of us developed a pretty great yes ladder bf destroyer that I'm going to throw up in here as well. I've used this with great success, or this general concept, several times.

    So if she says she has a boyfriend you go in with:

    PUA: Are you allowed to speak with other guys?
    Her: Yes
    PUA: You can still be friends with guys, right?
    Her: Yes, but...
    PUA: Don’t you hang out with your friends?
    Her: Yes.
    PUA: I imagine your friends have your number?
    Her: Yea.
    PUA: Since were friends, what are your digits?

    You can make several variations on this, but the point is to use a yes ladder to psychologically prime the girl to accept the place you are taking her. It works like a charm.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    Hey guys, I'm new to the forum, but have read pretty much every post in this thread, i just wanted to share my story and hopefully get some awesome feedback and advice for you all :P

    So the girl i like had been with her BF for nearly two years now, her and I go to the same school and we get along extremely well with one another. I've heard from others in the class that she likes me and can be herself around me, and feels comfortable around me, but Isn't quite sure whether or not she should break up with her man, she never talks about him, i only know his name and nothing else really, I'm not sure if this is relevant to the advice I'm going to receive, but her father past away when she was young, so she has grown up without that fatherly figure and i think that's why she is afraid to let go of her current bf, but i can't be sure, that's the general outline of the situation, thanks for reading!

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    Default Re: BF Destroyer Technique

    You're still a high school kid so my advice will seem strange to you ad you probably won't have the gutts to do it. You have to become a man an alpha male search that btw if you'd had read it all you'd have started running the bfd's already
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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