i have been reading books that has helped me out a lot on getting things going after the first, second, and even third date. i realize that if your looking for multiple relationships that its good to let the person your dating know asap.
so far i have one girl on lock pretty much. i know i can screw things up and never see her again but things are going good. i kept in touch with here really good at first worked hard, and then i switched things up and call her every two days. when she was getting use to the two days i switched it again and would call her in three days. she told me she waited forever for me to call but i never did. what im working on here is setting the beats off a little bit so it keeps her guessing and she doesnt get to use to when im going to call her. i get back to her randomly almost as if i will walk away from her life at any moment.
i connect with her on a sexual way as well. i always try to keep her wanting more and being aggressive at the right moments. i started off with some Kino, touching her, we went to the movies and i layed on her lap, i put my arm around her after, holding hands, etc. after i put my arm around her i knew it was okay to kiss her so i gave her a small kiss on the lips (no tongue) and she wanted more of me. the next time i invited her to my house and we had a full make out. i tried to slowly push things toward sex but she told me she was on her period. so i didn't make it a big deal but i know that sooner or later if i keep things up i will get to that point. the good thing is that she is okay with us being friends and she is okay with us getting intimate in that way.
here is the update i have with one girl i met at a bookstore, i know i will find more girls and soon i will be dating multiple chicks and be able to go as far as i want. i will keep you guys updated. that is all for now. peace