Whenever I read a PUA forum I'm always amazed at all the million and one techniques for verbal "game" and using words to seduce a woman. While such techniques have their place. I find that Kino is often neglected because it can difficult concept to understand. Since my game is almost entirely based on Kino Escalation rather than verbal game. I decided to write some things out for those who are scratching thier heads at why they may have all the verbal push/pull routines down pat but still can't quite make the lay.
Much of what I learned was from simple trial and error, but I also picked up some things from watching APES on NatGeo. Apes can't talk. But Apes do like to screw. The Alpha male does not just run over to one of the females and rapes the heck out of her. Most of the time the male uses kino in order to signal to the female that he's in the mood.
One of the most powerful techniques I discovered was watching a male silverback seduce a female in his troop entirely through kino escalation that was EERILY similar to what I do when I'm seducing a woman.
The first key is learning where and when its okay to touch a woman.
Stage I: Approach and Introduction
Wrist, Elbow, Shoulder, Back of the hand.
The idea is once you get "locked in" to the set any time she feels a major positive uplift emotion you should touch her in one of these areas. You also will tap her or lightly touch her whenever you are trying to emphasize a point in your conversation. Use a tap like you would a period or an exclamation point.
Stage II: Rapport
As you establish a serious rapport with her, your touching should escalate depending entirely on where your body is in relation to hers.
At the bar you will typically sit next to each other facing the bar, this leaves the back wide open for touching. Start between the shoulder blades, a gentle tap or light brushing of your fingers along her spine. Each and every touch must have a purpose. Either to lock in good feelings when she laughs, or to show you "care" about her when she says something sad and is looking for validation. "aww.. its okay sweetie I understand how you feel" (gently brush her back with your fingers.)
Stage III: Advanced Rapport and Comfort
This is where the rubber meets the road. Before now it was all acceptable social touching. At this stage you are looking to escalate to the "safe" erogenous zones. These would be the knee, the thigh and at the advanced comfort stage, the nape of the neck.
Rubbing the nape of the neck is extremely powerful stuff. I've had women who were otherwise "lukewarm" to my approach suddenly blow wide open after touching her neck. I discovered this watching a male silverback gorilla seduce one of his troop females. Each sexual interaction among higher primates is a new seduction. The female either may or may not be in the mood, it is up to the male to find this out and get her in the mood and his primary means is through slow kino escalation exactly as I have explained above. This is primal powerful stuff that most females don't even realize. They get turned on without even understanding why it is happening! All they know is that your touch electifies their skin and gives them goosebumps and this right here is the key to it all.
Start with just a gentle brushing on the back of their neck right where the hairline recedes. There is also a knot where the skull meets the spinal column. I learned about the power of this little known "G-spot" in a massage class. This entire area, about 2-3 inches in square is absolute gold if you can get her comfort level up enough to allow you to touch her there.
9 times out of then they'll be caught off guard and coo and go "wow, that feels REALLY good" and will lean their head down to allow you better access to it. Use it wisely.
A WORD ON MASSAGE:
There are two types of kino Massage in my experience. The playful "friendly" massage you give a girl in a club for instance, and a more intimate softer touch. You want to emulate the softer touch whenever possible. calibration is SO important with Kino. You have to understand how to calibrate her body language to yours. Trial and error is the only way to discover this.
The Leg Thermometer:
Ever wonder how to tell if a girl's buying temp is going up without having to verbalize it? Simple.
One of my favorite techniques is once rapport is established and you are facing each other. Is to take my left leg and place it on the foot rest of her barstool and keep it there. What happens is, as her buying temperature improves, she will ever so slowly swivel her leg closer to yours. At first she will keep about 4-6 inches a space between your knee and hers. As her buying temp improves that distance will slowly decrease. At some point, she'll begin "bumping" your leg with hers. Once her comfort level and buying temp are at maximum, her knee will "bump" yours and stick like glue.
Once that happens you are at maximum buying temperature and its time to really turn up the game.
Hope this helps some guys. It has really helped me.