Re: TSM's Quick Guide to Interracial Dating
Ahh this guide.. Its got a great rule of thumb for how to handle the race card.
I wanna touch on something close to home. As an asian male its pretty clear to me that in america we are often seen as beta because of popular media. Our own asian male idols are mostly dead and hardly rock stars. When was the last time you see an asian male lead hook up with a white chick other than steven yuen from the walking dead? Having a few unicorns in the asian american culture does t really help the rest of the asian males in america. I would exactly call this racial profiling but it might be--i've known a few asian males who've broken through who do happen to be with other ethnicities and often arent percieved to be in a relationship with them in public. There is a common disbelief that asian men are betas because society sees it as so and doesnt warm up to it. The only time they dont question it is if they have a half asian baby with them. David Choe, the world's best artist who made 200 million from FB going public says Asian Women are seen as Black Guys in dating because everyone wants to F-them. While Asian males are seen as the Black Women in dating because no one wants to F-them. In my history of online matches i get more black women than any other ethnicity. So what does this mean? It means embrace some of those positive stereotypes when you see her light up. She's likely to have some bias for or against it. The rest of your PUA game should apply pretty easily from there.
K. I think i'm done on that rant on what its like being an asian male. I will add that because of stereotyping and popular media if you arent asian you have pretty high chances to proceed in interracial dating. To some degree if you follow some positive racial stereotypes you're likely to do we with an ethnicity that has already perscribed to those characteristics. I do believe you can alter those beliefs and racial borders but you'd have to go based on the personality types that these women have. The more walls they have the likely hood you'll have to break through a lot of walls and sh1t tests.
I also want to add that your geography and the size of your city / town you live in will tell you how difficult interracial dating / hook ups will be. In a big city you're likely to have more oppurtinities to explore these types of scenarios. In a small town you might be the unicorn in the room or see a unicorn in the room. I think half of the battle of interracial dating is related to geography. But ultimately having the major concepts of PUA will get you above and beyond most guys attempting to break that barrier. I welcome it--good luck to everyone out there.
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