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Thread: TSM's Quick Guide to Interracial Dating

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    Default TSM's Quick Guide to Interracial Dating

    I like to date interracially, as can be shown in my most recent field report. There is no room in the true PUA's mind for racial discrimination. Stunning and Exotic Beauty can be found in all races and ethnicities and at least here in America, we have the pleasure of having the most diverse population on the planet within one nation. Women from every part of the world can be found in some example in most civilized parts of the USA.

    However, in America interracial dating especially for men, can be much different than the same experience for women. Typically men will face if not open hostility, a certain saltiness coming from male members of the woman's ethnicity. One must be a truly secure alpha male because the woman in particular will use your reaction to these social challenges as a yardstick to judge you against men of her own ethnicity, and yours as well.

    This is just how things are in America. Social pressure regarding race is ridiculous on its face, and yet, mild prejudices do still exist given our racial history.

    That being said, there are a few certain rules that one must follow if one hopes to attain the attraction of a sexy woman of the opposite race. Not really rules but guidelines, except one.

    Golden Rule: When pursuing an interracial relationship, never emphasize the differences between the two of you until well into Comfort.

    This rule is as far as I know, mostly unbreakable. Most guys screw up this rule. One of the first questions they ask is "Have you ever??" or "Would you ever?" like its some kind of special thing. Like the woman is somehow different than any other woman. This is a form of pedestal even more devastating than going up and dropping down in supplication to a world class 10 and drinking from her shoe.

    Do not do it. She is a woman. That is all she is in the end. Yes, you may find her exotic features alluring in the extreme, but you must never use this as a reason for getting to know her. You find her attractive as a woman, not a black woman, or a white woman, or an Asian woman, but as a female human.

    Once you have connected and are well into comfort, then would be the time to broach the subject. Once again, one must make sure never to hold her ethnicity as the prime reason for your attraction. You mention it merely out of curiosity, and to use as an opening for discussing your mutual interracial relationship experiences. It will be rare for you to find a woman of exotic ethnicity dating you without having had been with other men of yours, almost exclusively in many cases. For some reason, many women of all races find particular traits that cause her to have a specific preference for men outside her own ethnicity and often centered around one in particular. This is perfectly normal and a good thing. It's what keeps the gene pool fresh and productive of alpha males.

    So that's the rule. Break it at your own risk, both bodily and mentally.

    Okay. So what are some guidelines. Well, you'll of course have like twice the chodes coming out to mess with your happy attempts to mutually copulate with a female member of exotic ethnicity. Men of your race will see that Game is On for them, and men of the opposite race will in typical fashion race to the scene to prevent the "theft" of one of "their" women.

    So you must be a very ballsy SOB and be solid in both your game and your social skills in general in dealing with the Chodes. Remember, she's always watching to see how you handle this. Don't fail to maintain your calm demeanor in the face of social pressure but don't back down or fail to make her feel protected.

    Dealing with women of your own race I haven't really had to much experience with. Like I don't seem to remember in any of my experiences looks of jealousy or anger from white girls towards other race women, but knowing women I'm sure there can be a well veiled contempt for the girls themselves while at the same time maybe feeling turned on by the guy for having the balls to be seen in public with his arm around a woman of other ethnicity than what he is.

    Anyway, if anything else comes to mind I'll edit, but that about sums it up.

    Follow the Rule, Be Alpha Protector and get something beautiful and exotic into your life. You'll thank yourself later.

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    Default Re: TSM's Quick Guide to Interracial Dating

    Wow. This is great. I really appreciate this. I've always been particularly attracted to asian women but never known how to go about the process whatsoever. If and when I get the chance to use this I'll let you know.

    Sidenote - Are there any differences between the approach of Asian Americans and Asians? I feel different when talking to foreign women than those who were born and raised here, especially in college. It's really cliquey.
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    Default Re: TSM's Quick Guide to Interracial Dating

    Quote Originally Posted by mr.onethousand View Post
    Wow. This is great. I really appreciate this. I've always been particularly attracted to asian women but never known how to go about the process whatsoever. If and when I get the chance to use this I'll let you know.

    Sidenote - Are there any differences between the approach of Asian Americans and Asians? I feel different when talking to foreign women than those who were born and raised here, especially in college. It's really cliquey.
    Good luck with the Asians. I've been trying for years to penetrate Asian society and have failed miserably at it. They have way way too many familial expectations and obligations and they still exist under a largely patriarchal society where they can be ostracized and shunned for engaging in activities the patriarch deems unacceptable, which would include dating outside the race.

    The only other ethnicity that is more closed off are the Muslim communities. Which isn't surprising considering the very real danger of honor killings, maimings or at the very least a severe beating. I'm not saying that it can't be done. I'm sure in a large city like LA or NYC it's possible, but in most places the Asian communities are small and insular. Good luck.

    As far as Asian girls here on study? I tried that too and hit the same brick wall. I met one Asian girl who was here on studies from China who was pretty flirty and open to the idea, but she wasn't the usual Asian. She hung around with all white chicks. The ones that are all clustered together in the local clubs just off campus together chattering among themselves and never interacting? I've managed to use some Alpha stuff to pull a couple onto the dance floor for a couple occasions and get a little opening action going but it never went very far.

    I feel sorry for these girls really because the Asian males for the most part seem extremely beta, even fearful of approaching their own kind, let alone interracially. I still scratch my head at Asians, but I'm sure if I was in a big city like NYC or LA I could probably pull it off eventually with dedicated effort.

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    Default Re: TSM's Quick Guide to Interracial Dating

    I feel sorry for these girls really because the Asian males for the most part seem extremely beta, even fearful of approaching their own kind, let alone interracially. I still scratch my head at Asians, but I'm sure if I was in a big city like NYC or LA I could probably pull it off eventually with dedicated effort.
    honestly, from what I've seen a lot of Asian girls actually date white guys. however, it seems like they prefer men who are "more subtle" but still alpha enough to lead them through the interaction. it always seems like they're the hardest girls to fark because for some reason they seem to be more in tune with the emotions of others.

    I always wanted to bag an Asian hotty, but unfortunately there are very few of them in the citys I live near....

    as far as black women are concerned, I would say that you have to be extremely alpha and maybe even a little passive aggressive to get with them.

    of course, where I live its not very racially diverse. all of the women I've had were white and of Germanic decent (the exact same race I am)

    my vision is to one day be able to say that I've slept with a woman of every race just like david x did. we'll see what the future holds

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    Default Re: TSM's Quick Guide to Interracial Dating

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    honestly, from what I've seen a lot of Asian girls actually date white guys. however, it seems like they prefer men who are "more subtle" but still alpha enough to lead them through the interaction. it always seems like they're the hardest girls to fark because for some reason they seem to be more in tune with the emotions of others.

    I always wanted to bag an Asian hotty, but unfortunately there are very few of them in the citys I live near....

    as far as black women are concerned, I would say that you have to be extremely alpha and maybe even a little passive aggressive to get with them.

    of course, where I live its not very racially diverse. all of the women I've had were white and of Germanic decent (the exact same race I am)

    my vision is to one day be able to say that I've slept with a woman of every race just like david x did. we'll see what the future holds
    Man, I'm glad you brought this up. The other night at work I talked for a few minutes with the most beautiful woman I have ever seen. She was perfect 50 50 mix of African and Asian. I had to literally fight down the urge to game her because she's a guest and that happens once.in awhile but its a big no no. But she literally had the best facial features of both races. She was Brazilian and my heart ached as she walked away. Lol

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    Default Re: TSM's Quick Guide to Interracial Dating

    When gaming an girl who has a different ethnicity I think I just wouldn't mention it at all. Although, if she is from another country and you knew people from another country, then I think that could be used in conversation. In other words, treat her like any you would any other girl of your ethnicity/culture.

    As to men being protective of women of their group, it is human nature.

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    Default Re: TSM's Quick Guide to Interracial Dating

    See how life is? I always do good with Asians and Indians because I rarely find them attractive. I mean there have been some that were quite hot, but overall gaming comes easy when you're not invested lol.

    I'm from close to NYC, and yes all races are open to dating any and everyone. Especially if they were born here. Asian girl black guy, Hispanic guy white girl, White guy with Indian girl... Even Christian girl Latina with Israeli Muslim! Whatever works lol.

    Different race is very easy to qualify/disqualify... Just be careful. Ex. Latinas can be feisty. So qualify around that. But don't call them dramatic unless you have a good vibe going. That word can carry alot of negativity.


    Edit... I forgot to add... Guys don't get scared. I'm sure many of you in some parts of the country or world don't deal often with people of a certain race. But they are just people. Language barrier aside, gaming is gaming. Humor might not come off correct if there is a language difference, but body language and good eye contact are universal to all people.
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    Default Re: TSM's Quick Guide to Interracial Dating

    Ahh this guide.. Its got a great rule of thumb for how to handle the race card.

    I wanna touch on something close to home. As an asian male its pretty clear to me that in america we are often seen as beta because of popular media. Our own asian male idols are mostly dead and hardly rock stars. When was the last time you see an asian male lead hook up with a white chick other than steven yuen from the walking dead? Having a few unicorns in the asian american culture does t really help the rest of the asian males in america. I would exactly call this racial profiling but it might be--i've known a few asian males who've broken through who do happen to be with other ethnicities and often arent percieved to be in a relationship with them in public. There is a common disbelief that asian men are betas because society sees it as so and doesnt warm up to it. The only time they dont question it is if they have a half asian baby with them. David Choe, the world's best artist who made 200 million from FB going public says Asian Women are seen as Black Guys in dating because everyone wants to F-them. While Asian males are seen as the Black Women in dating because no one wants to F-them. In my history of online matches i get more black women than any other ethnicity. So what does this mean? It means embrace some of those positive stereotypes when you see her light up. She's likely to have some bias for or against it. The rest of your PUA game should apply pretty easily from there.

    K. I think i'm done on that rant on what its like being an asian male. I will add that because of stereotyping and popular media if you arent asian you have pretty high chances to proceed in interracial dating. To some degree if you follow some positive racial stereotypes you're likely to do we with an ethnicity that has already perscribed to those characteristics. I do believe you can alter those beliefs and racial borders but you'd have to go based on the personality types that these women have. The more walls they have the likely hood you'll have to break through a lot of walls and sh1t tests.

    I also want to add that your geography and the size of your city / town you live in will tell you how difficult interracial dating / hook ups will be. In a big city you're likely to have more oppurtinities to explore these types of scenarios. In a small town you might be the unicorn in the room or see a unicorn in the room. I think half of the battle of interracial dating is related to geography. But ultimately having the major concepts of PUA will get you above and beyond most guys attempting to break that barrier. I welcome it--good luck to everyone out there.
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    Default Re: TSM's Quick Guide to Interracial Dating

    There is a common disbelief that asian men are betas because society sees it as so and doesnt warm up to it.
    I truly feel bad for you guys, having to beat the stereotype is a big challenge.

    honestly I didn't realize how ruff Asians had it in the dating field until I took a boot camp with abc's of attraction (who specialize in helping Asian men)

    honestly they almost seemed like they couldn't believe an ordinary white guy wanted to take the course.

    I literally got asked:

    "are you a virgin or something?" (and they were shocked when I told them I wasn't)

    probably because most of the students they get are Asians who struggle severely.

    speaking of witch, if you are an Asian male who struggles to get women, get in touch with abc's of attraction.

    abc's founder and head instructor J.T. Tran is leading the crusade for Asian men to "win back their masculinity" and break the negative stereotypes. (and I have had the pleasure of meeting him and seeing firsthand how great of a role model he is for Asians in the pua community)

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    Default Re: TSM's Quick Guide to Interracial Dating

    @artanddale... I feel for you bro. I didn't realize how.bad Asian guys have it until I saw a program about it on TV (it was about TV stereotypes). Although I will say that in my junior year of HS, there was a Phillipino kid who sat next to me in a class who was a great looking jock type. All the girls wanted to bang him (and quite a few did lol).

    Just to add to the discussion ... I really think NOT being a girls type actually HELPS you alot in gaming. I have had quite a few girls like me even as an AFC even though I wasn't their type. Girls who only like black guys (I'm white), girls who only like Latinos (or have only dated Latinos ever). Even had a stone cold lesbian date me! Now she calls herself Bisexual lol!

    When a woman sees how awesome a particular guy can be (especially when said guy is not their type), it gives them brand new emotions. They are shocked. Their minds have to run all over the place. And you know women love that. So I just view it as a test, a challenge.

    When girls tell me they only like one particular type, I tell them "Uh oh. Don't tell me that. Because whenever a girl has told me that in the past, they end of loving me even though I am not their type. So please, watch yourself and behave"
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