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    Default Kino's Broken Heart

    Ok, Guys you may have noticed that I have been gone for a while. Well let me explain, I met a girl, not just any girl, a woman that knocked the game right out of me. In an instant, like a bolt of lightning she hit me, and I knew I was done. How did I know you ask? Well, I have a restless spirit. Even when I’m with the hottest girls, my eyes are always scoping. I’m not a cheater but I’m aware of every hot little thing that crosses my path. With her around it all went away. I for the first time I can remember I felt like I wasn’t missing anything. I felt complete.

    I simply had to have her. I didn’t want her for lust, or status (she is flawlessly beautiful) but she reignited emotion in me. I went through a period where I felt nothing. Women couldn’t hurt me because I simply wasn’t invested in them. I didn’t give a sh1t. I was never a player. I was always honest, but none of them moved me in a way that my heart opened up to them. Put simply, I was all game.

    Why this girl? She is selfless. She is genuine. She is so sensitive and pure in her nature. God, did I mention she is breathtaking? She made me feel like the protector, the confidant, the lover, the provider, all the things that we should aspire to be as men at some point. I planned a first date worthy of a movie, Argentine Tango, a scavenger hunt, blue roses, and for our dinner the chef invited us back into the kitchen put us in aprons to help prepare the meals. I literally blew 2k, and cancelled a 7 day cruise to the Caribbean just to make sure she had no doubts of my intent. I did all this for a shot.

    So why do I have this broken heart? She doesn’t trust me. I dumped her friend to get with her, she doesn’t trust the PUA, she googled me, she read my posts and it freaked her out. (Incidentally, that’s why I stopped the 30 girls reports, even though they were two years old.) I made a mistake as well. The week after our first date, I had to drop some things at my exes house and we fooled around. I caught myself, we stopped short of sex. You are probably thinking “it was the first date that doesn’t even count, you didn’t even have sex”. No, it was my mistake, she isn’t like other women, I should have known better. Since that time, I haven’t coached even though she wouldn’t know, sarged at all, not even a phone number. Most, importantly I haven’t missed it.

    So why am I sad, again? She doesn’t trust me and I don’t think it’s something I can fix. Now you guys probably think this is a sad story and right now it is. I’m not gonna lie my heart is broken but that’s the beauty of the story. For a while, I lost myself in pick up. I lost my healthy sense of compassion and it was all game. With her, I dropped it all, no game. I was honest, open and sincere. It sucks, I think I lost, I don’t think she is coming back but still she gave me something…Hope. I know that somewhere inside me, no matter what there is a place for a woman that isn’t like the rest. Nobody wants to be the 50 year old guy at the club trying to get some ass. Ultimately, I think at some point after all the partying, we want a wife, a companion, someone to mother our children. All I had to suffer was a broken heart and blow a couple of grand to remember that….it was worth it.

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    Default Re: Kino's Broken Heart

    Kino's Back!!

    This is a touching story man. I'm sorry to hear about all of this.

    I don't blame Women for freaking out about PUA. It's scary to know that there are men who have mastered


    I'm not sure if I would ever share PUA with Women though. As attached as I might become, Women do not completely understand it, just as we all know that Women do not completely understand themselves; That's not to say that men don't completely understand themselves either.


    You're right though. There certainly be a point in my own life too, when I'm older, and where I stop PUA, after finding that right woman in my life.


    Again, I'm sad, to hear that you're sad brother. Hopefully things will look to the bright side soon. Life is a crazy, and winding experience, and you've definitely held witness to that. In the end, it only makes us stronger, and helps us discover what it is we want.


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    Default Re: Kino's Broken Heart

    Hi Kino,

    Very interesting post indeed. This is my take on emotion:

    http://www.puaforums.com/ask-expert/...onversion.html

    As players emotion will eventually catch up with us and remind us of our humanity. But we should never forget who we are at our core. We are players. That's how we define ourselves, and when we are touched by our soul it should always always be embraced because as you say - its worth it, every second of it.

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    Default Re: Kino's Broken Heart

    Quote Originally Posted by rs5096 View Post
    Hi Kino,

    Very interesting post indeed. This is my take on emotion:

    http://www.puaforums.com/ask-expert/...onversion.html

    As players emotion will eventually catch up with us and remind us of our humanity. But we should never forget who we are at our core. We are players. That's how we define ourselves, and when we are touched by our soul it should always always be embraced because as you say - its worth it, every second of it.

    rs5096
    Isn't that the truth.

    I remember reading an article by Style where he was explaining his recent breakup from a world class model. He was hurt by the fact that he can seduce practically any woman in the world he wants to, but even he, with all his skill, can't keep a relationship with such HB10's for longer than a couple years.

    If one of the world's greatest PUA's can't keep a relationship going longer than a couple/few years, what are we to expect?

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    @Suave Kino

    Man, that really sucks to hear. I would have loved to read you made the finish line of PUA and found an amazing woman who wanted to spend her life with you. How'd she find your posts on google, anyway?

    Well on a somewhat more cheerful note, aspiring PUAs are learning your techniques. I made a sticky called the newbie guide and put your bombshell method in the same line as the Mystery Method and Sasha's direct daygame. Which is a nice one to be in to me.




    @ Siliconmagician

    Life-long relationships and seduction require two completely different skillsets. That might be what Style is doing wrong. For example, a woman will be attracted to a man who is unavailable a lot, but that same trait will make for a terrible father - and finding a good one is something important to women. PUA requires you to keep your distance and have to ability to walk away, but in marriage you should be loving and always be around for your family.

    Perhaps making that switch and acquiring a new skillset is what makes it go wrong for him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Virgil View Post

    @ Siliconmagician

    Life-long relationships and seduction require two completely different skillsets. That might be what Style is doing wrong. For example, a woman will be attracted to a man who is unavailable a lot, but that same trait will make for a terrible father - and finding a good one is something important to women. PUA requires you to keep your distance and have to ability to walk away, but in marriage you should be loving and always be around for your family.

    Perhaps making that switch and acquiring a new skillset is what makes it go wrong for him.
    Well, I know I stumbled across a dark player's blog where misogyny is openly embraced and these guys, much like "race realists" are convinced that women are genetically predisposed to cuckoldry and hypergamy and therefore cannot be trusted for longer than a few years in much the same way that "race realists" try to claim that different races are genetically predisposed towards crime or violence.

    I often wondered about this myself, but then I see my Grandparents been together for 60 years this year and still deeply in love like a couple teenagers. I don't know what we've lost in our society in regards to marriage and life long relationships, but something died in our social stratum when the pill was invented.

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    Default Re: Kino's Broken Heart

    I've struggling with the deadness of emotions myself. But I've went on the continuum of this "science" really quickly in the last year. One point I was happy with going on a rump and multiple threesomes. Now, sleeping with a girl feels good in the moment and takes care of primal needs, but afterwards I kick myself in the ass for sleeping with another girl I have no connection with despite how "hot" she looks and having to deal with her sleeping over or I crashing at her place to not burn any bridges.

    I solute you for recognizing that feeling again...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Virgil View Post
    How'd she find your posts on google, anyway?

    I'm, curious about this as well. you don't use your actual name anywhere, do you Kino?
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    Quote Originally Posted by OOKĖ View Post
    I'm, curious about this as well. you don't use your actual name anywhere, do you Kino?
    I know I do, but it's just my first name. It might come back to me but when I am a full an complete PUA I might not care if people find out.

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    Default Re: Kino's Broken Heart

    She was a friend of my former girlfriend. She knew I was a
    Dating coach. When she googled Kino Suave, up popped every post
    I started on this board in particular. She read every one of them.


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