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    Default How do you fly? Solo? With a wing?

    Hey Guys,

    Thought I would start a thread on our preferred methods of sarging. How do you guys like to go when you go out? By yourself? With one trusted wingman? With a group?

    It's been a little over two years now since I joined the PU community and I have to say I still prefer to fly solo. I've done all of the above and always feel the most comfortable by myself. Most of my friends do more damage than good, and though I don't struggle with aa much I feel some pretty strong performance anxiety with my friend(s) there. They always have high expectations of me and it throws me off. I guess this is also why I like to hit on girls when they are by themselves too. I feel relaxed and no pressure 1 on 1 with a girl.

    I had a friend who really liked when I was there though. He said I pushed him and made sure he wouldn't pussy out, so I see both sides.

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    Default Re: How do you fly? Solo? With a wing?

    Quote Originally Posted by mr.onethousand View Post
    Hey Guys,

    Thought I would start a thread on our preferred methods of sarging. How do you guys like to go when you go out? By yourself? With one trusted wingman? With a group?

    It's been a little over two years now since I joined the PU community and I have to say I still prefer to fly solo. I've done all of the above and always feel the most comfortable by myself. Most of my friends do more damage than good, and though I don't struggle with aa much I feel some pretty strong performance anxiety with my friend(s) there. They always have high expectations of me and it throws me off. I guess this is also why I like to hit on girls when they are by themselves too. I feel relaxed and no pressure 1 on 1 with a girl.

    I had a friend who really liked when I was there though. He said I pushed him and made sure he wouldn't pussy out, so I see both sides.

    Opinions? Thoughts?
    I'm a solo operator myself. I tried numerous time with friends but it always ended up just being a hassle. I remember once I was pushing a buddy of mine to open this cute chick. He kept saying "in a minute, in a minute" and finally I got so fed up I said "Here buddy, let me show you what "in a minute" gets you" and I went up and hit on her myself. Within 30 seconds I had her giving ioi's and giggling like a school girl. 60 seconds after that I lean back to do a take away and bump into someone. I turn around and it's my dude! He was actually expecting me to just magically hand this cute girl off to him in the middle of the set!

    I knew he'd bomb it so I said "Hey this is my buddy, vulture, he'll keep you company for a minute while I head to the bathroom." and went to the bathroom. 5 minutes later I come back he had blown it with her and he was sitting all dejected by himself at the bar. I was unapologetic to him for not only ruining what was a cute girl who I could've had, but for himself as well.. He didn't have much to do with me after that incident. Probably best that way.

    Another one is my alpha buddy of 25 years. We go out alot but it's guaranteed he'll stagger his drunk ass into my set and start trying to caveman me around in front of the chicks and busting my balls. We've almost gotten in fist fights at the bar over that stuff. "What? I'm just tryin to help you man!" he says and when I say I don't need him to help me except to leave me alone when I'm talking to chicks and he goes "Oh! It's not like you have any game anyway! If you had game you'd be telling her about how you're going to put a thumb up her ass rather than those bull sh1t stories you give." This coming from a guy who sees ass raping his own wife against her will as viable means of sexual gratification.

    Pisses me off. So its better to go alone, or with my own mom. LOL She understands social dynamics and influencing people way better than I ever could.

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    Default Re: How do you fly? Solo? With a wing?

    I like to go out with a wing. My usual wing is not into game, nor does he need to, he is one of those guys that just walks into a bar and picks up. I have even seen him pick up before getting inside.
    He used to laugh at what I got up to and thought it was stupid, until I managed to get him to give a few things a go.
    We went to a pretty average bar dressed in suits, we were the only two wearing a suit in the bar. he couldnt belive chics were coming up to us.

    But I find anymore than 3 or 4 people becomes too much unless you are a mixed group of guys and girls out.

    What do you guys say, when the girls ask who you are out with, or what are you up to? when your on your own?

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    Default Re: How do you fly? Solo? With a wing?

    Quote Originally Posted by Errant View Post
    What do you guys say, when the girls ask who you are out with, or what are you up to? when your on your own?
    "I'm out solo tonight, my friends typically get in the way of what I'm trying to accomplish."

    "What are you trying to accomplish?"

    "Meeting fun and attractive women like you of course!"

    Works every time.

    When they ask me what I'm up to, etc. I typically respond with

    "I'm celebrating yet another week of hard work finished."

    "What do you do?"

    "I'm a..."

    "Gigolo, but don't worry sweetheart, friendship is free."

    or

    "Corporate Ass Kicker, I make heads roll when revenues drop."

    or any other off the cuff remark that comes to me.

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    Default Re: How do you fly? Solo? With a wing?

    I like to hit the clubs with a wing just because if a girl ask who your out with you will seem a bit sad if you have to say you've come out on your own. She might wonder what's wrong with you. Girls like social guys. I wish they liked loners lol but most don't. It's good to have balls to approach on your own though and you should practice it. Wingmen can take out the girls friends making your job easier but they can also nick your girl too. If they do that you don't want them winging you. Lol

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    Default Re: How do you fly? Solo? With a wing?

    Well I need a wing at this point to help push me. I can do a lot if someone is there to push me but I'm the opposite if I'm by myself. I could see though how someone advanced enough could go alone. I can't do much in getting women by myself but I don't think I'd be the type to drag my wing down.

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    Default Re: How do you fly? Solo? With a wing?

    I know I just joined the forum, but I know alot about going out solo, or lone-wolfing it as I call it. 6years ago I moved to Vegas with nothing but 2 suitcases and 200 bucks. All i did was get a job in the best club in town and save money til i bought a car. Then i went everywhere and did everything by myself and I killed it. Think about it, a guy w 5 bros is a threat to women, a lone wolf seems confident as well as self assured. He doesnt need his boys around to coax him to have to prove himself. Some of my best approaches are when I do so by myself and women see I have the confidence to do so without a group of frat guys cheering me on. Thats where you show social value, as in you know your a pleasure to be around all by yourself. When it works its pretty amazing.


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