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    Default Became a lone wolf while aiming for alpha male

    As title says.

    I realized recently that by becoming more and more independent, I ended up closing myself a lot.

    I know a lot of people, and consider I have a lot of friends. I do a lot of activities, and in most of them, as in at work, or in classes, or in parties, I know everyone, they are all my buddies and everything.

    Thing is, I chat with them, have fun, but never really talk about my stuff. They all consider I have my personal life, and they're not supposed to ask, and I see it the same way. They talk about their stuff, but I don't.

    The problem being that once I'm outside of these, I'm just by myself. I don't give my number to anyone of these guys, and I don't take theirs, so I end up hanging out by myself.

    I kind of like that, and I enjoy walking down the city streets, getting a coffee, etc, but in the end I realize that I'm a solitary wolf, not an alpha wolf. It's especially problematic when I have a gf, as I'm always by myself, which looks quite antisocial,but also because I have no idea how to deal with someone wanting to share stuff/life/schedules/etc

    I'm not sure what my question is, but would you have advice? Is it a normal step on becoming alpha, or did I end up on a totally different track? How do I change that?

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    Default Re: Became a lone wolf while aiming for alpha male

    Women like men that lead other men. If your not a leader of men then your not the most attractive male you can be. Alphas lead men and in order to lead men you have to be comfortable being around more men. Destroy the Mindset that your a lone wolf. I ran with the same concept myself and my results were weak at best. You got to expand your social circle to have an exciting life style that draws women in.
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    Default Re: Became a lone wolf while aiming for alpha male

    Hey, FauxPas here. Mikalichov excellent post. I wish I had thought of it! In work I'm a natural leader. I run a crew as big as 200 at times. I'm very good at what I do, and keeping my eye on what's important. Eye on the prize. I'm not sure why, but I am a lone wolf when I go out in social settings. At work I feel there should be a distance between the boss and worker. I'm good at building rapport with the team amongst themselves. Sometimes that means playing a hardass so they gel together against the boss, me. Only used this a couple of times. 0Rooster0, maybe you, or some of the guys here, can suggest how to become more alpha in social settings and social circles. Right now I'm pushing myself to give up my hermit ways...step one. I would appreciate any and all suggestions guy's, I'm here to learn. Good luck, and positive vibes. Ciao, FauxPas.

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    Default Re: Became a lone wolf while aiming for alpha male

    Quote Originally Posted by FauxPas View Post
    Hey, FauxPas here. Mikalichov excellent post. I wish I had thought of it! In work I'm a natural leader. I run a crew as big as 200 at times. I'm very good at what I do, and keeping my eye on what's important. Eye on the prize. I'm not sure why, but I am a lone wolf when I go out in social settings. At work I feel there should be a distance between the boss and worker. I'm good at building rapport with the team amongst themselves. Sometimes that means playing a hardass so they gel together against the boss, me. Only used this a couple of times. 0Rooster0, maybe you, or some of the guys here, can suggest how to become more alpha in social settings and social circles. Right now I'm pushing myself to give up my hermit ways...step one. I would appreciate any and all suggestions guy's, I'm here to learn. Good luck, and positive vibes. Ciao, FauxPas.
    First off women don't care if your the leader of your friends. If your the boss at work take her to your job, show her you lead them. It will totally turn her on.
    And if you want to develope a big social circle you must first be open to making friends, be an outgoing talkative guy. Develope your ability to banter and invite guys to go out with you to do some stupid sh1t. Like Ill take guys out to yell out the windows at random pedestrians with a Megaphone. Guys bond over physical stuff, unlike women. And if you wanna be the alpha of the group. Learn to be comfortable making decisions, be decisive and make sure everyones having fun. From here basic alpha techniques will definitly help you out.
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    Default Re: Became a lone wolf while aiming for alpha male

    Yep, thanks for the advice. It's not really a problem of leadership, as I have no trouble with that, more that all my social groups are pretty insular, I don't see the sport guys outisde of sport, the office guys outside of the office, etc..

    But I'll work on finind stuff to organize to do with them

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    Default Re: Became a lone wolf while aiming for alpha male

    Rooster pretty much nailed it, but yeah, FauxPas try and get a girl to meet you at your work before you go off and have coffee or whatever. If she sees you leading 200 people that will definitely elevate your alpha male status.


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