Re: How to not win her back and let go.
Truly after reading posts with regards to this subj, and tryin to give advice to someone I ended up sending a text to two exes(I like to really fuck things up simetimes lol) anyway as soon as I did I realized that you can't allow your emotions control you. One of them replied and I deleted her reply because honestly there is no point.
At the end of the day we must remember why we join forums such as this one. When I was with these ladies I had no skills(not saying now Im the shit) but at least no Im consious of what Im doing and when things don't go as planned I adjust for fire and fire again.
I guess the point is we have to remember that yes we loved these ladies from the past, but maybe we were a tad hooked on them because like it has been metioned in previous posts we weren't males with many choices or felt capable of making shit we wanted happen, instead guys like myself just took whatever we landed and ran as far as we could with it.
At the end of the day here we are now and we have to remember where we were and how far we have gone. When my ex replied I felt no joy, no inner desire to reply back right away. I felt nothing. The only thing it did was remind me that Im a better man now and that I have a choice. Either mope around about someone who wasnt right for me, or interact with as many gorgeous ladies out there till I find the right now for me which I will choose because I wanted to. Not because she was what I just happen to catch.
Just my personal thoughts.
To my bros who served with me.
"When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.”