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    Hey Cody, FauxPas here. How about a drug vacation? A good, dear, cool, awsome, best guy in the room, friend of mine recently went on one, (um...me). Oh , and thanks Virgil for calling me out on that previous post, " there's that old guy, FauxPas here, who has that problem.. Ha, ha! Virgil I'm teasing you, and laughing my ass off, just messing! I truely have only love and respect for you "leaders". Cody, my friend has been doing the anti depressant thing for a long time, long time. And yes it can and does affect preformance big time, or should I say lack of. While on this vacation, you must, must commit to destoying all and any negative thoughts. The first few days, weeks are difficult, but for every rainy day, a sunny one is around the corner. I am not a doctor nor do I know anything about you or your hardships, these are just, MY EXPERIENCES! Oh and my opinion on Cialis is, it is a phenominal thing for me. Honestly I don't think young guys need them, just my opininon. It could create an artificial "crutch". Any qestions, just ask. I really am forcing myself to be open and honest here, because the old "me" had to go! Good luck, and good vibes. Ciao, FauxPas

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    Cody i wish I had your problems (HB10 that needs to be satisfied). :P

    but seriously, I wish you the best, and hope you find a solution to whatever is messing with your libido.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pwonager View Post
    Cody i wish I had your problems (HB10 that needs to be satisfied). :P
    You can and will, Man. You can and will.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cody View Post
    You can and will, Man. You can and will.
    I hope so bro. I need to work on my confidence, still have some issues with myself.

    I think the gym is helping me a lot, but it will take time before i'm 100% confident.

    Thanks for your good wishes.

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    FauxPas here. Pwonger, sorry don't and won't buy it! You have been on an out and out tear on this forum as of late! You have it in you! "The Force is strong in this one!" Good luck , and good vibes. Ciao, FauxPas

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    Hey Cody, I know what it feels like to go limp or to not even be able to get hard. For myself the feeling was not a good one. Especially when it happened with a girl I just met, or just started dating. It happens to everyone. Even with my ex, we were together for 5 years, our sex life only got better as time went on, I still rub one out thinking about her. The very few times I couldn't stay hard with her was a lot easier to handle, because I knew her so well.

    It comes down to physical chemistry, I'm not talking about brain chemistry, i'm talking about how "hot" someone makes you. Just because you are with a hot girl, and most guys would love to have sex with her or jerk off thinking about her, doesn't mean she is going to do it for you 100%.

    If you know that you sometimes have an issue with getting hard or staying hard, DO NOT GET DOWN ON YOURSELF. Before you get as far as being intimate with anyone, you will know if it's gonna happen or not. If your not feeling it, don't go there.

    If you try and orally please her or use your hand on her, at some point she is gonna want to either have you in her, or play with you, and if she sees it is soft, it's probably gonna be awkward. I feel it is best to not get sexual if you are not "sprung".

    This is only my opinion, and I am speaking from experience. I also take medication for depression.

    Find someone you have a connection with and have safe fun, even if they are not a Hot Babe.

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    Quote Originally Posted by easyflow View Post
    This is only my opinion, and I am speaking from experience. I also take medication for depression.
    It's death, isn't it?

    I've had OCD my entire life, but the depession hit me Junior year in high school. The trigger was actually because I got dumped. I always thought people who were "depressed" just needed smacked and told that it's not real. There's no such thing as depression. Even when I was "diagnosed" I refused to believe it. I would get better. Things would get better. I can do this. I created my own reality and it's amazing. Everybody wants to be a part of it, then when people find out I have depression their minds are blown.

    How? How could a guy like me have so much going for him and still be depressed? They're right. I have everything and live the life. I don't have any reason to be depressed, but I am. If I knew why I would tell you, but I don't. I have no clue. When I go off meds I can't move. I literally lay in bed for 24 hours a day, only 4 of them am I conscious. I don't move. I don't think. I don't do anything. I just waste away.

    I care about women. There's nothing worse than physically showing them that you aren't attracted to them. Few things cut deeper. To try and explain is self-defeating because people don't get it. This isn't my fault. There's nothing I can do.

    [Most recent field report] Amy's a sweet girl and she understands, but that doesn't make it any easier.

    I'm going to call my psych today. I'll let you guys know what's up after I can get an appointment and talk to him.

    Once I can get boners again, I'm gonna run around f*ckin b*tches. Lol
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    Hey Guys!

    I don't really know why I'm sharing this other than I figured you all might like to know. Lol

    I went to my psych today (somehow got an appointment super fast) and talked about what's going on. He's going to back me off Lexapro and if all goes well stay off it altogether, but if not there is another antidepressant I can take that has a much lower risk of sexual side effects.

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    Hey cody, I've had health problems the last two and a half years. My illness is what caused my low libido as well as the medications. It wasn't until march when I couldn't get it up when duty called that I was fed up and decided to do something about it. Like i said it was the illness that caused it but the meds didn't help either. I went online researched natural herbal remedies and found a few. I found stuff that works! I took one for a month and saw the difference then i took another and saw the difference. Now i just take them every once in a while or when I know i'm going to have a good night . if you want to know what i tried message me or i can share it here.

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    Thanks Goostave,

    I feel like I should share another update:

    I am now completely off anti depressants and doing well. I haven't crashed yet and the side effects have for the most part worn off. I've had sex multiple times in the last week and had comparitively few problems.

    God it feels good. There's nothing better than the excitement a girl gets when you compliance test her by putting her hand on your ... . Magic I tell you.

    A big thanks to all you guys for being here for me. You have all been a huge help in keeping my chin up and reminding me it's not my fault. Appreciate the brotherhood.
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