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    Default Personal Problem - My Story

    Hey Guys.

    I have so much to share, but I can't right now. Not yet. All the good that happened tonight is being overshadowed by this problem. This problem that I've been blaming on so many other things than the truth, but I can't push it aside anymore. Here we go:

    I'm neurotic. Always have been. I've struggled with chemical imbalances throughout most of my life, diagnosis after diagnosis until I really didn't care anymore. I'm not sure what's on the most recent papers, nor do I want to. Let me tell you how I see it:

    I have clinical depression. I also have clinical OCD. I've been on more drugs than the average Joe can name, but it doesn't bother me. I have always viewed the side effects as a minor annoyance; something I would have to put up with if I ever wanted to be happy. Dizziness and lightheadedness doesn't bother me. Frequent fainting doesn't bother me either. The libido is starting to take a toll.

    I used to tell myself (and even the girl) that I'm just not that into her. That worked for what's nearing a year now, but I can't lie to myself any longer. I was with a 10 tonight and couldn't get it up.




    God, I really hate myself right now.




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    So you can't get it up because the drugs are side-effecting? Is there any other prescription you could get? What would happen if you stopped taking them?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Virgil View Post
    What would happen if you stopped taking them?
    Bad things, Virgil. Bad things.

    I've basically gotten to the point with my psych where he tells me to write my own prescription. I've been on all the possible drug options and know what works best for me, so that's what I stick with.

    It's not that I can't get it up at all, it's just sometimes with some girls. There's no rhyme or reason. Obviously I don't want to take more pills to counteract the side effect -- That just seems counterproductive. I don't know. Are their exercises I could do? I honestly know very little in this field. I've heard that there are easy fixes and that it shouldn't be something to worry about.
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    I think this is a matter for your psychiatrist or a psychologist/sexologist etc...

    There are some old guys on here that might have the same problem, but probably caused by age, not medicine. Dunno if there's a difference in treatment.

    Try google for those exercises. Beware though, 'cause I think with such an issue you're going to have to filter out a lot of horsesh1t from the real deal in the search results.

    And don't start blaming yourself for it. You know it's a side-effect of a drug, not something you can really influence.

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    Yeah, I thought it might come to that. I guess I just hoped there would be an easy fix, and maybe there is, but I'll have to ask my psychologist.

    It's just really got me down and worried.
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    Don't worry. Worrying is completely futile because what's going to come your way is going to come your way anyway. You won't know anything more until you go see the shrink in a couple of days. The worst case scenario is an extra pill to take like you said.

    In the meanwhile, if you can't get it up, just try to give her orgasms orally/with your fingers. At least she'll go home satisfied and you might still have a shot. You and I both know this isn't my field of expertise, just coming up with an idea here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Virgil View Post
    In the meanwhile, if you can't get it up, just try to give her orgasms orally/with your fingers. At least she'll go home satisfied and you might still have a shot.
    Way ahead of you

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    Hey Cody,

    I'm not expert either but have your tried scheduling your medication after sexual activity. I know your sexual activity isn't going to be the same but I've heard this can help for certain drugs. If you normally have sex at night schedule it just after that time.

    You can try reducing your dose but you have prob attempted that.

    Also, you can research doing a 'drug holiday' two days a week. Where meds maintain effect but sexual function is restored. May work/may not.

    Tell your doctor about it. He might try a drug like Viagra to combat it. I would try the above stuff first though.

    All the best!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cody View Post
    Way ahead of you

    I'll write a field report soon. I'm also going to put it in the Members Lounge. Gotta reserve some stuff for the brotherhood instead of sharing with the whole world.
    Ah, good. Looking forward to it. The Members Lounge is viewable for the whole world, though. You don't have to be a member to read the threads, just to post.

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    Quote Originally Posted by roland777 View Post
    Hey Cody,

    I'm no expert either but have you tried scheduling your medication after sexual activity?
    That's a good idea that I didn't think about. Antidepressants are time release capsules, so if the side effects are caused by the initial release as opposed to the drug's build up in the body then that might help. That'll be something I ask my shrink.

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    The Members Lounge is viewable for the whole world, though. You don't have to be a member to read the threads, just to post.
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