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Thread: Open Letter To The Community (An Update) - Cody

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    Default Open Letter To The Community (An Update) - Cody

    Hey Guys,

    I have a bunch of random topics that I wanted to cover regarding The Community (and myself) as of late.

    Activity

    The site is BOOMING!!!!! Yeah buddy!!!!!!!!! It makes me happy to see The Society so alive. Consequently, you may have noticed that Bill has given us a few new updates: reinforced security, social network friendly (Like/Share), etc. I personally think these updates are awesome and we all owe Bill a big thank you.

    Another thought that I had concerning the increased activity is that of a specialty directory: A post (thread) that the administration could make a sticky so newbies could quickly navigate to a respected PUA knowledgeable in the field of question. I think this would be great for two reasons: First, as Virgil has said, there was a time when we could check the site every other day to read the most recent discussions and throw in our two cents. Now, we have a new Top 10 Hottest Threads every hour, which is great, but I know that questions are slipping through the cracks and to me that’s unacceptable. There is no reason that any man should NOT have his questions answered. Second, some things you don’t want to broadcast to the whole web. When you don’t know where to go or who to talk to, this would work wonderfully for private messaging. Also, if it’s a broad topic they could simply post a comment on the thread for any of the top reputations to tackle if they so felt equipped (I say top reps because I assume that’s the most practical way to choose who would qualify. If you disagree, by all means please say so).

    Thoughts? Comments?




    A Few Notes on Myself

    I have a girlfriend now. It’s not like I was planning on it, but I have more fun with her than any other girl, so we went exclusive. That’s what we all eventually want anyway, right? A girl who blows all the others out of the water? Well, she does that. I plan to now write field reports about us and share some advice on dating, because we’re pretty scarce on that here.

    An explanation to my newbie volunteers: I have been asking you just what exactly it is that you want to learn from PU in hopes of better focusing and organizing my book. My activity on the site will soon go down to better commit myself to my writing (said book, specifically). Don’t worry, I’ll still be here and contributing, just with a bit less intensity than before. If you ever need me you know where to find me: just send a pm my way.

    - Cody
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    Default Re: Open Letter To The Community (An Update) - Cody

    I like the suggestions. Awesome that you are writing a book, I'm in the process of doing the same...with a little extra flavor. Good luck.

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    Default Re: Open Letter To The Community (An Update) - Cody

    The directory idea is stellar. I've seen people directing posters to more qualified PUAs for help and I think that's a great idea. Sometimes bumping a thread just isn't enough to get it answered by someone who knows what they're doing. I try to answer/direct as many people as I can and I know I'm not the only one, but I still feel like a lot is missed. If we do this I think it would be a good idea to give the "experts" or whatever we call them a bigger inbox. I know I'm constantly deleting old pms and it still fills up fast, and I'm not an expert at all.

    Props on the girlfriend man. I hope you both make each other happy. My only warning is never get comfortable. Always be chasing after her and have her chasing you cause once you think you have someone, you lose a lot of attraction there. That's how I lost my last girlfriend.
    Last edited by Bandit; 07-15-2012 at 11:47 PM. Reason: Clarification
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    Default Re: Open Letter To The Community (An Update) - Cody

    Congrats on the girlfriend, Cody. I read that before but don't know if I congratulated you so here it is.

    So what we need to do is to determine what the topics will be and who will be the experts to answer questions on them (should they want to).

    Topics:
    -Day game
    -Night game
    -Club game
    -Direct game
    -Indirect game
    -Indirect-direct game
    -Online game
    -Dates
    -Alpha Male
    -Inner Game
    -Sarging solo
    -Friend zone
    -Approach Anxiety
    -Approaching (opening)
    -Last-Minute Resistance (LMR)
    -College game
    -Kino

    Just a couple off the top of my head. Feel free to add more topics.

    Experts
    Well, I volunteer. I'm guessing Cody too because you came up with the idea.
    -Xavier


    BTW, my box can hold 50 messages - pretty awesome . I had to delete messages constantly to keep some room open as well in the past.
    Last edited by Virgil; 07-19-2012 at 06:10 AM.

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    Default Re: Open Letter To The Community (An Update) - Cody

    Virgil, club game seems to be a hit topic as well.

    [Added club game]
    Last edited by Virgil; 07-17-2012 at 06:04 AM.

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    Default Re: Open Letter To The Community (An Update) - Cody

    The directory thing is awesome. I would love to volunteer no probleme even though i'm not as active as before i'll still answer everything that i can. It's great u're writing a book i would definately buy it.
    Virgil howcome u can store 50 PM's? i want that!
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    Default Re: Open Letter To The Community (An Update) - Cody

    I can store 50 PMs because I'm a moderator. Y'all need to be able to PM me when someone is breaking the laws of the forums

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    Default Re: Open Letter To The Community (An Update) - Cody

    I'm glad I got such positive feedback. I'll start shooting out PMs and putting this together.
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    Default Re: Open Letter To The Community (An Update) - Cody

    What about LMR? Should that be a category?

    [Added LMR]
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    Default Re: Open Letter To The Community (An Update) - Cody

    LMR, that's a good one. I consider myself damn near a master at that one.


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