Who is your example of a real alpha male? And more importantly, why him?
Mine is Ernesto "Che" Guevara for a number of reasons.
First and foremost, his honesty. Even at my age, when he was travelling South America, he'd be completely honest with people. He checked out the neck of a man who's help he needed and told him flat out it was a tumour. Of course, the man didn't provide help any help and rushed to the hospital, lol.
Another example is when a man let him stay at his place for like a week and fed him, clothed him, bought him a boat ticket and let him gain experience as a doctor in his hospital. All he wanted in return was for Che to read his book and comment on it. Right before he left, the doctor asked for his opinion about it. He said the ideas were good but the book itself was poorly written and he should stick to his usual profession. The doctor thanked him for that because no one had ever been so blunt with him. This type of honesty really suits the Direct Game I wish to learn, too.
Even when he was a guerilla, he never allowed his soldiers to lie or steal, no matter how bad conditions were.
Secondly, the man's good heart. He always helped out wherever and whenever he could.
Thirdly, his leadership. That's really important as an alpha male and in my eyes he always adopted the right attitude needed for the situation as a leader.