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Thread: Why I Fly Solo (And How to Get Abundance)

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    Default Why I Fly Solo (And How to Get Abundance)

    I have to be honest, the amount of trust and hope some of you put into your wingmen kind of weirds me out. I learned this stuff solo, worked a little bit with wings, then ultimately decided that solo was the way to go (even if only for me.) Nine times out of ten my wing would DLV all of the HV’s I handed to him, unknowingly become an obstacle, or the most common: couldn’t step up when the time called. My favorite wing is a pivot (Shantel.) The best part is that all she has to do is stand there and look pretty. That’s it. Boom. Preselection and Social Proof. But she’s even better than that because she understands Game basics.

    So I refuse to work with wings anymore. I don’t trust guys saying they can add to my value—I already have that. I don’t need it. People talk me up without me needing to ask. Don’t get me wrong though, because I love teaching, but teaching is different from winging.

    I’m not even going to try to introduce these topics nicely. I’m just going to come out and say them because they seem that obvious to me. It blows my mind that no one else sees them either (besides AFC Adam .)

    You look gay.

    For real. You do. This hardly needs any further explanation. If you are sarging with one dude you’re going to look gay. The term “wingman” is prevalent enough in today’s culture for women to call it out, and they will. They will sh*t test you on it. If you’re going out with a wing you better be ready for gay jokes and/or being called out as a wingman, which is fine as long as you know how to Disarm it, but if you’re a newbie, you’re f*cked.

    There’s only one AMOG.

    I know this may surprise some of you, but I’m not a genius. My IQ is average (well, technically slightly above average, but that’s beside the point.) There is only one Alpha Male. You can’t both be alphas. Whether you’re looking at wolves or apes, neither case has two alpha males. Consequently, one of you will be ranked above the other. I’m not going to take the time to explain the theory behind this because I assume you already know. If not, read The October Man Sequence or The Red Queen.

    WingS Plural, don’t help.

    So you and your wolf pack just stepped in the club. All the girls at the bar see your posse and think, “I bet those nice young gentlemen are out to have an enjoyable night of dancing. Surely none of them would make an attempt at conversing with one of us. That would be absurd.”

    No, you f*cking r*tard, they are all well aware that you and your crew are out on the prowl for p*ssy.

    “So what am I supposed to do, Cody?”

    You surround yourself with pivots.

    You need abundance. You step in the club with six girls and every other girl in there wants to know who you are. You can have sh*t game and it won’t matter. That’s the power of preselection. You aren’t creating triangles, you’re creating polygons. You go with girls anywhere and everywhere. “But Cody, won’t I look gay if I go shopping and do yoga with girls?” Are you serious right now? Because playing Halo with a bunch of dudes is so much straighter? Check yourself, because you sound stupid.

    And that leaves the one question that the mediocre PUA struggles with most: How do I get abundance?

    Try this. Throw a party. Invite all your friends (especially your girlfriends) and tell them to bring a +1. Tell your bros you won’t even let them in unless they have at least one girl. It doesn’t matter if they’re ugly. He can bring his sister, that’s cool. Hell, he can bring his mom. What you’re doing is meeting new people, and the next time you throw a party you invite the people you just met and tell THEM to bring a +1. Eat, sleep, repeat. This is how you build a reputation.

    Now this is important. Don’t try to sleep with them. You don’t sleep with your proof; you just make sure they’re having a good time. You can sleep with them later if you want to, but when you’re just starting out the social circle you are creating is going to be fragile and easily broken. Eventually, your entire circle will have proof and all you’ll have to do is sit back and let girls come to you.

    I got off topic, didn’t I?

    If you’re going to have a wing, have one who is a good friend. That’s all you really need anyway. If you are both out enjoying yourselves women are going to want to join the fun, and it’s just that easy.




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    Default Re: Why I Fly Solo (And How to Get Abundance)

    Well put my friend!
    The wing girl or multiple wingettes is like gold!

    great post all around!


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    Default Re: Why I Fly Solo (And How to Get Abundance)

    awesome post tanks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!

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    Default Re: Why I Fly Solo (And How to Get Abundance)

    Absolutely agreed!

    I just recently found someone I could actually call a "Team-Player" more so then a wingman. Really we'll team to help each other get the first step in then fall back, even leave the picture completely, thus to not cause any interference or F'ups. Otherwise the other person may seem like a obvious crutch or a partner in crime.

    I pretty much refused to include any other guys in any of my activities cause theyll end up blocking me or making matters worse for me. Pisses me the hell off when something so simple and easy is blown out of proportion or a solid opportunity is ruined cause someone cannot be depended on as you would have hoped. Not to mention what jealously will do for you.........

    Ive seen it as well were some guy will be doing awesome with a girl one on one then here comes some fark and "divides" her attention amongst the two of them, instead of JUST the guy that was doing the gaming in the first place. Blows the intimate moment and kills any such chance he had. I witnessed this and almost wanted to pull the screwball aside and ask him what the F he was thinking and why he did such a thing? Had no business to even enter the picture when the guy was doing absolutely great himself. Sometimes your amigos like to come in and build you up or give you some props to help you look better, but I think every guy has the ability to make himself look good to a choice female by their own will. Ive actually been around the same guy before and he started getting some things going with this girl and I exited the picture and left him by himself to have some fun cause it was his scene, not mine. Dont be a prick and linger for no reason.

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    Default Re: Why I Fly Solo (And How to Get Abundance)

    I most of the times go out solo but Going out with a friend pumps me up and makes me fearless.
    If it frightens you, Do It!

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    Default Re: Why I Fly Solo (And How to Get Abundance)

    Most ventures in life are undertaken with a team. The history of the world was written by those who could leverage the strengths of those around them, becoming great leaders. The Art of War is expressly against isolating oneself when there are potential allies within your grasp.

    I can't agree with flying solo 100% of the time, but I do 100% agree that a female wing (or Pivot, w/e) is much better if she is on the same page as you. Communication is key in such situations.

    Also, you're right that there is only one AMOG. A good wing will set you up as such, then you can return the favor in a different set.

    I don't think two guys chilling looks gay, lol, but if you can AMOG amongst a group of 5 or 6, your value shoots way up. I can't count how many times my roommates of last year set me up as such without even realizing. They would bring acquaintaces over, and she would see me as alpha due to our natural room chemistry. This was enough for attraction in almost all cases.

    Overall good post though. We all need to find a style that suits us, and you make very valid points. Thanks for the post!

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    Default Re: Why I Fly Solo (And How to Get Abundance)

    Wouldn't you consider female companions a more indirect wing? But yeah, i've had my fair share of bad wingman but the whole point of the wingman is to have someone of equal to greater capabity than yourself and who is able to execute techniques that in some cases make the sets oblivious to the fact that you gamed them with a wingman right under there noses.

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    Default Re: Why I Fly Solo (And How to Get Abundance)

    Quote Originally Posted by Francis View Post
    Wouldn't you consider female companions a more indirect wing? But yeah, i've had my fair share of bad wingman but the whole point of the wingman is to have someone of equal to greater capabity than yourself and who is able to execute techniques that in some cases make the sets oblivious to the fact that you gamed them with a wingman right under there noses.
    Indirect wing, maybe depending on how your using them, but more often than not they are a Pivot. Cody however is just talking about using them as proof which is really all you should do. Like he says, six girls around you is a hell of a lot better than using 1 wing in any case, and they just have to be around you. They aren't doing anything, they're just making you look good so in this case you aren't using them as wings.

    And yeah I think I saw this video of Adams where he was talking about the six models in the club or something like that. Have yet to be dissapointed by any video of his. The most helpful tip I've ever heard in pickup was from that youtube show Adam has called dating sciences, and they found out that if you ask a girl if you can sit with her she will almost always say no, but if you hive a reason as to why you want to sit with her when you ask, she will almost always say yes, no matter how stupid the reason. Sorry got a little off topic.

    But yeah tho, I prefer solo gaming, but of I'm going to a club, I prefer to have a couple with me because I don't feel bad about leaving them alone, cuz they wanna be alone anyways. I've got a false time constraint if I so choose. Ihave a pivot there, I've got a wingman that doesn't care if I dlv him since he's already in a relationship. And lastly I don't look like a loser going to the club my myself, and I can always act like they dragged me with so its not obvious I am there to hit on girls
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    Default Re: Why I Fly Solo (And How to Get Abundance)

    I prefer to have a couple with me because I don't feel bad about leaving them alone, cuz they wanna be alone anyways. I've got a false time constraint if I so choose. Ihave a Pivot there, I've got a wingman that doesn't care if I dlv him since he's already in a relationship. And lastly I don't look like a loser going to the club my myself, and I can always act like they dragged me with so its not obvious I am there to hit on girls.

    Solid. Especially about DLVing a guy who's already in a relationship. It's so true.
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