I have to be honest, the amount of trust and hope some of you put into your wingmen kind of weirds me out. I learned this stuff solo, worked a little bit with wings, then ultimately decided that solo was the way to go (even if only for me.) Nine times out of ten my wing would DLV all of the HV’s I handed to him, unknowingly become an obstacle, or the most common: couldn’t step up when the time called. My favorite wing is a pivot (Shantel.) The best part is that all she has to do is stand there and look pretty. That’s it. Boom. Preselection and Social Proof. But she’s even better than that because she understands Game basics.
So I refuse to work with wings anymore. I don’t trust guys saying they can add to my value—I already have that. I don’t need it. People talk me up without me needing to ask. Don’t get me wrong though, because I love teaching, but teaching is different from winging.
I’m not even going to try to introduce these topics nicely. I’m just going to come out and say them because they seem that obvious to me. It blows my mind that no one else sees them either (besides AFC Adam .)
You look gay.
For real. You do. This hardly needs any further explanation. If you are sarging with one dude you’re going to look gay. The term “wingman” is prevalent enough in today’s culture for women to call it out, and they will. They will sh*t test you on it. If you’re going out with a wing you better be ready for gay jokes and/or being called out as a wingman, which is fine as long as you know how to Disarm it, but if you’re a newbie, you’re f*cked.
There’s only one AMOG.
I know this may surprise some of you, but I’m not a genius. My IQ is average (well, technically slightly above average, but that’s beside the point.) There is only one Alpha Male. You can’t both be alphas. Whether you’re looking at wolves or apes, neither case has two alpha males. Consequently, one of you will be ranked above the other. I’m not going to take the time to explain the theory behind this because I assume you already know. If not, read The October Man Sequence or The Red Queen.
WingS ßPlural, don’t help.
So you and your wolf pack just stepped in the club. All the girls at the bar see your posse and think, “I bet those nice young gentlemen are out to have an enjoyable night of dancing. Surely none of them would make an attempt at conversing with one of us. That would be absurd.”
No, you f*cking r*tard, they are all well aware that you and your crew are out on the prowl for p*ssy.
“So what am I supposed to do, Cody?”
You surround yourself with pivots.
You need abundance. You step in the club with six girls and every other girl in there wants to know who you are. You can have sh*t game and it won’t matter. That’s the power of preselection. You aren’t creating triangles, you’re creating polygons. You go with girls anywhere and everywhere. “But Cody, won’t I look gay if I go shopping and do yoga with girls?” Are you serious right now? Because playing Halo with a bunch of dudes is so much straighter? Check yourself, because you sound stupid.
And that leaves the one question that the mediocre PUA struggles with most: How do I get abundance?
Try this. Throw a party. Invite all your friends (especially your girlfriends) and tell them to bring a +1. Tell your bros you won’t even let them in unless they have at least one girl. It doesn’t matter if they’re ugly. He can bring his sister, that’s cool. Hell, he can bring his mom. What you’re doing is meeting new people, and the next time you throw a party you invite the people you just met and tell THEM to bring a +1. Eat, sleep, repeat. This is how you build a reputation.
Now this is important. Don’t try to sleep with them. You don’t sleep with your proof; you just make sure they’re having a good time. You can sleep with them later if you want to, but when you’re just starting out the social circle you are creating is going to be fragile and easily broken. Eventually, your entire circle will have proof and all you’ll have to do is sit back and let girls come to you.
I got off topic, didn’t I?
If you’re going to have a wing, have one who is a good friend. That’s all you really need anyway. If you are both out enjoying yourselves women are going to want to join the fun, and it’s just that easy.
And in case you didnt notice, HUGE credit and inspiration to AFC Adam.