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    Default I Need to Know Why You Are Here?

    Lately I've been reading Ciaran's post PU material on why he left RSD (among other "post PU" guys.)

    And I need to know right now: Who is here for the sole purpose of having lots of sex with lots of women.

    Is that what PU is about? Is that why we're here?
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    Default Re: I Need to Know

    I'm here to improve myself. There are no victims from what I do.

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    Default Re: I Need to Know

    I think that any guy who is completely honest with himself would admit; THAT is the reason they originally wanted to learn "pickup", or at least what got them interested in looking into it.

    Whether they still feel that way or not, is going to be different, depending on the individual.

    It's the same reason guys like me decided they wanted to play in a rock band: "For the chicks!" Period.

    Later on you discover the bigger/more important reasons for staying with it; but I'll admit that MY initial interest was exactly to score as many women as possible.

    That said, it didn't take me very long to realize that I would rather find "that one special girl" instead.
    But in order to do that, I still need the knowledge for IF & WHEN that times comes & I meet her.


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    Default Re: I Need to Know Why You Are Here?

    I think that any guy who is completely honest with himself would admit; THAT is the reason they originally wanted to learn "pickup", or at least what got them interested in looking into it.
    Not true, at least for me.
    The reason I joined these forums, and read books about pick ups is not to have sex with lots of girls or anything and that is not my intention now aswell. Infact, im still an 18 yr old virgin (my choice, had opportunities) because i want to find that special girl, but in order to do so, like tmalonetn said, i need the knowledge..
    The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!

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    Default Re: I Need to Know Why You Are Here?

    Quote Originally Posted by bobat6 View Post
    Not true, at least for me.
    The reason I joined these forums, and read books about pick ups is not to have sex with lots of girls or anything and that is not my intention now aswell. Infact, im still an 18 yr old virgin (my choice, had opportunities) because i want to find that special girl, but in order to do so, like tmalonetn said, i need the knowledge..
    Oh that's cool.... Make the rest of us look like pigs...
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    Default Re: I Need to Know Why You Are Here?

    I've already told you why I'm here. I want to live the kind of life I've always wanted, to have great relationships with amazing women and have a fun, exciting life.

    It makes me wonder though, if all you want is sex, why go through all this hard work?
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: I Need to Know Why You Are Here?

    Quote Originally Posted by Cody View Post
    Lately I've been reading Ciaran's post PU material on why he left RSD (among other "post PU" guys.)

    And I need to know right now: Who is here for the sole purpose of having lots of sex with lots of women.

    Is that what PU is about? Is that why we're here?
    Honestly, when i first was introduced to it yes but then it became about self improvement and if i hadn't seen the improvement and i if i didn't like it, i wouldn't have stuck in there, i wouldn't have become who i am today.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: I Need to Know Why You Are Here?

    Initlly for me without adoubt I was interested in PU because I thought it would give me the power to fark any girl I wanted but what I am beginning to learn and understand with great power comes great responsibility.

    I realised it actually gave me the window and developing confidence to become a better man for me I consider it a personal honour to be considered a PUA aspiring or not and respect the community for its underlying values. It's about choices not numbers!

    Last week was the first time a girl wanted to sleep with me and I said no, I thought I would regret it but in fact it was so enpowering It shocked me because suddenly I realised I didn't have to say "yes" to every oppotunity and that made me feel good. It was a total realisation and in literally 7 days since joining here the community/family has given me that knowledge that it's okay to say NO..... thanks!!!
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    Can I own it? Can I fuck it? Can I kill it?


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    Default Re: I Need to Know Why You Are Here?

    I started out wanting to capture one of those beautiful, sweet girls I always had a crush on. My teenage years are filled with oneitis like crazy. When I realized PUAs could get multiple girlfriends at once and have loads of one-night stands I wanted as many women as possible. Then I started to make alpha changes and read that even the greatest PUAs were in the game to play around and find that one woman in the end. So now I'm here to have a couple of sick years regarding women, and then find and conquer my oneitis out of those.

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    Default Re: I Need to Know Why You Are Here?

    Thanks everyone,

    This is important to me. I'm struggling with how to write this aspect into my book.

    I know there are some gray areas in The Community, but we press onward. I won't give up on us.
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