I hope you guys know me well enough by now to understand that I by no means intend to come across as a pretentious prick. I’ve been struggling lately with what PU is and isn’t. I just need to get this straight. Here are my qualms:
Routine game and canned material is for p*ssies. (newbies)
I’m sorry. It is. There is nothing “expert” about it. Any guy—Literally ANY guy—can reduce girls to science, which is not only unhealthy, but disgusting. When you memorize openers and have calculated responses to every possible reaction that she may have, she is no longer a human being, let alone a woman. You have turned her into an object. She is a validation machine: you find your self-worth through her validating you, which goes against the tenet of don’t seek others approval. If you are in PU to get women because women establish YOUR value, that’s f*cked up. If you continue to do this you WILL develop an unhealthy attitude towards women and it WILL spread into all other aspects of your life. I honest to God feel sorry for you.
I already said this, but let me repeat it in bold: Women don’t establish your value. (And neither does comparing your “success” with other men)
You establish your own value. If you’re surrounded by sevens and your buddy has eights, that doesn’t make him better than you. The idea of comparing yourself is a dlv. Your success is relative only to you, and when you allow yourself to compare your progress towards others (especially verbally) you’ve DLV’d yourself. No, not an outward representation, but inside, and that’s what counts anyway. Verbally asserting your alpha male status doesn’t give you alpha male status; talking about your d1ck doesn’t make it any bigger.
Too much will kill you.
Literally (STI’s) and spiritually. The more sex you have the higher your expectations become, and when she’s a 10 but you’re bored after a month you have “won” the game. How does it feel? Do you feel like a f*cking champ? No, because women can’t give you happiness. You need to come to a point where you realize happiness is determines by oneself, and I guess the guys that have done so left without telling us, or they tried but nobody listened (Ciaran.) Why? Because when you’re a chump that’s not what you want to hear. I’m starting to believe one’s time spent within The Community has a shelf life, because they get to a point where they get it but it’s too much for others to comprehend.
I consider the goal of PU to be this:
It is not the action, but the ability. It is not about “having” the woman, but knowing you could if you wanted. Kill the fear.
I have said that I won’t give up on The Community, but if that is what The Community is—if all we are about is the prerealization moment—then I guess it’s no longer a choice anyway. I am moving forward with or without it, because just like women you have to be willing to walk away.
I appreciate you all. Who is with me and pushing The Community forward and who thinks I’m full of sh*t?