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    Default Mikalichov JUI 1 (Journal Under Influence)

    Just came back from a pub night-out with friends, and wholly unsatisfied with my game. So, while being under influence, let me write down all my remarks about Mikal's game for him to read it on a new day. It's a tad long, but it's something I'll need to come back to later.

    1 - Stop making excuses.

    You're not even at the point where you're making aa excuses, like "she has friends with her" and stuff. You're making excuses on a whole PUA level. "I can't game because it's too noisy" "I can't game because I don't know anyone in the group" "I can't game because I don't have a shirt" (SERIOUSLY?) "I can't have a shirt because I don't have money" (i'm coming back to that one later). Maybe they are relevant. Maybe they're not. You can fix them, get a shirt, go to less noisy places, hang out in less noisy places, and I know you will. But you will keep finding excuses, you have an issue. Grow some balls.

    2 - Stop bitching about the money

    "I can't do that or that, wear that or that, invite her, get this drink, have a car, because I'm poor as sh1t". Granted, no income and all accounts in the negative, can't buy food until september, that's bad. But you have no money to spend, so lots of free time right? Use it, get your head out of your ass and go make money.

    3 - Become fraking alpha

    It's all nice to learn techniques, watch videos, give advice, but if once in the field you just sit down, chat with some other guys, and observe how some other guy is chatting all the girls and get ALL their fraking numbers (in front of their bfs! (he had a shirt, let's be fair.) ), while analyzing his techniques / movements, well, you're just full of sh1t. You're an armchair PUA. Don't sit down, stand up. You're afraid to look overdressed, well try to be, for once, and see what it does. Chat everyone. You're afraid of everyone noticing you're hitting on girls, so what? It makes guys impressed and girls horny.What's next, are you afraid of someone noticing you have balls?

    4 - Stop hitting on everything

    This is a mixed one. I like that you get serious with only a minority. But I'm worried by your tendency to instinctively game anything that somehow looks like it has a vagina. You gamed a 17yo and a 50+yo in the same night, for god sake. I know you probably wouldn't have sex with them (except the 17yo, because you're this kind of jerk), but still. Control your game.

    5 - Get rid of this recurring oneitis.

    I know you met great girls last time. I know they gave you tons of ioi. I know you wanted to see them again, because you forgot to take their numbers last time (I should slap you for that btw). I know they said they would be there. Well, they weren't there, get over it. Not just tonight, stopping thinking about them as soon as you realized they weren't there (which would have been nice), but even last week, stopping thinking about them as soon as the next day. They walk out of the room, they walk out of your life.

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    But I'm not a bitch, so I'll also talk about what I like about you, what I'm proud about.

    1 - You got solid body language / kino

    I like the way you body instinctively IOD every time you give an IOI. I like how you grab girls' hands / chins / backs while talking with them as it's the most natural thing ever. I like how you manage to intently gaze at a girl's eyes without staring (and how you manage to stay focus on the eyes even when they have heavenly boobs). I like how you manage to have a super natural smile with totally unknown girls in the streets and get one back. But don't use "I'm good with non-verbal stuff" as another way of saying "I'm not talking with girls", please.

    2 - You're getting more social

    You just walked to a table full of unknown people, and ended up chatting with them after a couple minutes like they were your best friends since years, I liked that. You're getting stronger, but I still think you need bigger challenges. I really want you to go sarge solo in a club. You might have the PUA equivalent of getting punched repeatedly in the balls, but that's good training. You're like this guy watching Bruce Lee movies all day long and pretending to be a martial artist. Go on, step in the ring. Feel the pain, and learn from it.

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    Default Re: Mikalichov JUI 1 (Journal Under Influence)

    Awesome post! Everyone should make one of these lol.

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    Default Re: Mikalichov JUI 1 (Journal Under Influence)

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    Awesome post! Everyone should make one of these lol.
    Everyone should make a drunken rambling self talking post?

    But yeah, i'm glad I've got it out actually, now I have a list of issues in my game I need to work on


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