So this weekend my family had a mini vaca up to MNPLS to visit MOA. Be assured that if it weren't a vaca I would have told you guys up north in advance so we could meet up and sarge, but it was and it was a break from PU too.
But you know how it is. The frame is always there.
I don't know how you guys do it that PU and travel. My state of mind was all out of whack just thinking about it. Also, with it being so long since I last traveled I forgot just how rude people are. They don't open, let alone women. I realized that I probably don't have much experience concerning b*tch shields. What I thought was a b*tch shield must just be the average girl, because the big city is rough. I don't know how you do it Red Baron, but huge props to you for it.
I'm used to Iowa. Everyone--literally EVERYONE is nice here. We just don't have a reason not to be. My sister and I stepped into the elevator at IKEA and the first thing I could think to say to her was, "Why is everyone here a douche bag?" If I stopped moving in the isle or tried to turn around people started b*tching. I'm nice. I don't understand why other people aren't. Life is good. The fact that you are alive is good. Be happy about that.
The same applies to some of the guys here on The Forums. I don't get why some of you are so confrontational. Sure, I come off as a prick sometimes but I really do mean well and want to help guys get better, but a few of you are just mean spirited. Why? If you're trying to assert yourself as an alpha...that's not how you do it. Leaders don't have to declare themselves leaders. Disagreeing with others in an other than constructive way isn't alpha, it's just being an overcompensating dick. Arguing in itself is a dlv. If you have something positive to say, say it, but merely disagreeing without an alternative helps no one. So please, if you are going to disagree, explain why and teach an alternative.
That was off topic. Crap.
I did a couple approaches just to see what it would be like in a new location. Both were direct of course. One was a total blow out. The other went pleasantly well. It was the first black girl that I've ever approached/ever been attracted to. (I'm not racist. I've always wanted to branch out race-wise, but living in Iowa makes that...difficult lol. We're white. I'm pretty sure we're one of the whitest states in the US. Maybe not as white as Wyoming lol.) Being out of my element made it pretty AFC of me. I was tripping on words. It was fun though.
Great vaca of course, but I took quite the blow to my ego. I guess I'm not near as good as I thought I was.