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Thread: Your Relationship with Your Father

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    Default Your Relationship with Your Father

    Hey Guys,

    Lately I've been going through some sh*t with my dad. I want to know if my hunch is true; that most guys in PU could have better bonds with their fathers. I'll admit that's probably why I'm here. I mean, if we all had great dads we probably wouldn't have any reason to be here. I'm a military kid. My dad was gone, and when he was there he never supported what I did, only what he wanted me to do. It gets better as we both get older, but not in the ideal way. I take his flaws and make sure they'll never be a part of me. I don't want that for my kids.

    I guess I just wanted to start the discussion.

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    Default Re: Your Relationship with Your Father

    i def agree. my father always had anger issues, and was never close with me or my siblings. and he is without a doubt sexist, and the way he talks about women has totally made a negative impact on me...

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    Default Re: Your Relationship with Your Father

    I have a stepfather who raised me since I was 6. I told him about me being a PUA and explained some of it. He found it very interesting, but was never interested himself since he's already remarried and happy about the way he is. Even if he has almost no game lol. So our current relationship is that I will tell him my stories and he calls me Charlie Harper

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    I lived with my Dad and he worked a lot. We could have been closer, but at least my Dad was there for me growing up.

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    Default Re: Your Relationship with Your Father

    My dad and I never really communicated well - just chit chat mostly - which is kinda weird.

    Maybe the lack of a stong male role model relationship makes boys grow into AFC's ---> study PU ---> become PUA's. Just my thoughts.

    Needless to say I didn't get much of the "man-training" that you see on sitcoms (talking to girls, confidence, etc) guess that's part of why I have to study PU.
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    Default Re: Your Relationship with Your Father

    my father went through 2 divorces, i would avoid a divorce when kids are involved at all cost

    he tried that too because of his father passing away as a kid, but his mum and my mum are both a bit well went crazy, i don't know if I'll attract the same kind of women as they both did but i will avoid them if i do encounter one.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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