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    TomChapman95 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I desperately need help with my inner game

    I'm socially anxious (if I don't get a text back or w/e quickly I assume the worst, I sometimes try to avoid social situations and tend to take a back seat in group conversations). I really want to know how I can overcome this. Also there's a girl who I'm interested in at the moment and I'm fairly sure she's interested in me too, however I keep having doubts. Any advice on improving my inner game would be much appreciated. Thanks.

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    Default Re: I desperately need help with my inner game

    Have something else to do after you text her. One subtle way to improve your perceived social value is letting her know you have other crap to take care of and it was actually a privilege to her that you sent the text at all.

    As far as social situations are concerned keep it surface oriented only so you don't come off as weird (shallow conversations are meant to be tag you're it -now you go). Know what football team (I see you're in UK) is winning and what is popular for guys to get into. You should have an opinion about it but nothing controversial.

    You should always Smile! I personally like to put off an imagine that I have better sh1t to do no matter where I'm at as well however be careful with that routine because some people will see it as arrogant.

    I think you could benefit from a book called the secret robin byrne. It actually repeats one point over and over again but it's so important. Law of attraction is in your thoughts. These thoughts are always bleeding through your body language and decisions. So no matter what you do in any situation be positive, keep your head up and be confident! You got this man!

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    Shakeshi is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: I desperately need help with my inner game

    You have issues with your self esteem so you rely too heavily on the
    reactions others give you for how you feel about yourself. You fear
    making a move on the woman you like because you are afraid that
    she might not feel the same way and it will be difficult for you to
    deal with that outcome. More than likely you over think about any
    potential bad outcomes and read too much into how people respond
    to you.

    Let me ask you this, of all the worst things you could imagine
    happening in social situations how often do they actually come
    true and if they ever have ever come true were they in reality
    all that bad ? Why not also imagine the best thing that could
    happen. What if whatever happened was neither all that bad
    or good, but rather forgettable.

    Take a look at yourself. You are intelligent and able
    to express yourself in a coherent manner. When you have a
    problem you can admit it to yourself and seek information
    to help you overcome that problem. You take responsibility
    for your life situation so that it can improve. In my book that
    puts you socially way ahead of many others.

    Keep trying, keep moving forward, you will get there.


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