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    Default The Two Hurtles Of Pickup

    This is a post for those of you just beginning your journey. If you are someone that has reached a level of success with women this still may help but this is targetted at those that are still trying to enter the world of the pua.

    There will be two challenges you will face when trying your hand at becoming one of the best puas. The best way two beat these is to be aware of there existance and through persistance and will power.

    The first is probably the one that 90% of the people on this forum are facing. This is the aa stage. Many people try there hand at being a pua. Its sounds like good fun and a way to take control of your life. To bad that this takes an extreme amount of work and the constant pressure of AA knocking you down. AA is basically when you fear the approach, the possibility of rejection. This fear is instinctual among the betas of our species and sometimes the anxiety of this is too much for most. That is why 90% of men stop here, most don't have the strength to push through the pain. If your the 10%, congradualtions for making it where most have failed.

    If you hope to beat the AA stage, you must first change your frame and self image. Read up on affirmations to make you better able to handle rejection and the possiblility. Fix conflicting beliefs and become the alpha you were meant to be.

    The Second hurtle is when you finally become good, when your life seems perfect. When you have that HB10. This may not sound like a bad thing and it shouldn't be. If you handle it right. Most people stop there study of the game here, they become weak minded again and lose there girl(s). Here your confidence went from internal to external, external confidence is shaky at best and proned to collapse on you. The second your game becomes weak you again start from point A and have to start completely over and build you life from the ground up.

    To beat this, consider yourself a constant work in progress. Never will you reach your full potential and you shouldnt want to. You as a human being have no limit to what you can have and get out of life.
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    Default Re: The Two Hurtles Of Pickup

    Nice one Rooster. I like how you address these lessons learnt problems.

    I do not want to hijack your thread but I like to add two other hurdles.

    The first hurdle is understanding how women think. Understanding that there are different types of women and how they interact with each other and us makes a world of difference. The second hurdle I think is being patient. Success doesnt happen overnight, and it takes great work, consistency and responsibility to get on the right path/track. Women from my observation and experience can tell emotions a mile a way. And if you showcase desperation they will be scared/creeped out. So dont rush growing the flower, be patient and take care of that flower, and it will grow strong.
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    Default Re: The Two Hurtles Of Pickup

    Quote Originally Posted by topgunningit View Post
    Nice one Rooster. I like how you address these lessons learnt problems.

    I do not want to hijack your thread but I like to add two other hurdles.

    The first hurdle is understanding how women think. Understanding that there are different types of women and how they interact with each other and us makes a world of difference. The second hurdle I think is being patient. Success doesnt happen overnight, and it takes great work, consistency and responsibility to get on the right path/track. Women from my observation and experience can tell emotions a mile a way. And if you showcase desperation they will be scared/creeped out. So dont rush growing the flower, be patient and take care of that flower, and it will grow strong.

    I totally agree with you. I had a hard time trying to figuring that stuff out as well. But i didnt almost quit pua because I didnt understand that stuff if anything the mystery of women drove me harder. These are just the two parts of pickup I see my friends drop off at. Its either early on or later at these stages of the game.
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