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Thread: How to Get a Great Group of Guys

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    Default How to Get a Great Group of Guys

    As you all know, I'm in college right now and working on my college game, which is basically being social and flirty all the time. It's going pretty well. I won't lie, I could push the flirtiness some more. But I can get that sorted with a little mental rearranging. What I'm really getting stuck on is an equally important but never discussed part of college game.

    If you read my journal you know that last year I was basically kicked out of the small clique I had formed freshman year. I realize now it was for the best, the were a boring group and weren't really getting me anywhere. But that leaves me in a pretty bad place to be. I've got no solid group of friends, specifically guys, that I can hang out with. My best friend, the one I usually party with, is in one of the better frats on campus so he's not really looking for guys to party, meet girls, or generally be stupid with cause he's already got that (a few hundred dollars and a year of hazing later). And as I've mentioned before, the guys in my old clique were and still are boring as hell. So that leaves me in this position, bro-less.

    So I'm asking for some advice. I'm already out seeding people and making friends and sharing love (I love that term) but they're really just acquaintances, at least for now. I get that this site almost exclusively gives advice about meeting girls, but isn't this just as important, if not more so? Chicks will come and go, but a solid group of guys can last your whole life. So what do you guys think?
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    Default Re: How to Get a Great Group of Guys

    Hey bro, quite the position you have found yourself in. I would say it is crucial for you to find the RIGHT friends.

    The way I would go about it if I were you is like this.....go out to parties etc and find guys who have the same aspirations as you, fun guys who are wild and awesome!....Then when you see they are people you respect and want to hang with then go out with them one day and be a person they will respect and admire.

    you may ask how?

    Well do things that are admirable, be free and fun to be around, do things that take GUTS! Go out with the guys/guy you choose to befriend and show him that you are an awesome person to hang with, approach lots of girls, do outrageous things, make fun,be a loyal friend and you will find these people you are looking for.


    Be like the friends you want to have!

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    Default Re: How to Get a Great Group of Guys

    When I go out and game. I don't just game women, I do it with men as well. Mainly cuz its chill as fark taking a women out and every guy i pass gives me high fives or wants to talk. Read "conquer you campus." This has little nuggets for creating a powerful social circle.

    My advice, become the social alpha talk and say wut up to everyone you see. When you say it, do the opposite of what they teach in game. Tilt your head forward, give a toothy grin and genuinely be happy to talk to them. Sense when a convo is reaching its peak then say hey man I'll see you later. And when you finally get in with a group give it some time for them to warm up to you before you jump right in, this kind of eagerness will frighten some of the guys of the group, give it about a weeks time before going out regularly with them.

    Above all else show value. Be valuable to the group in some way. Are you fun, funny, happy, social, do you have connections ect ect.
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    Default Re: How to Get a Great Group of Guys

    Yeah I need some more solid friends who are fun and also wants to be socialable. I have a nice crew of good ol' mates but they either get drunk and complain a lot or they leave the scene by the drop of a hat 'bro no HB10s here I am going home' WTF? Anyways, I am always on the lookout for solid friends who I can play video games with, play sports, chase girls and talk about the stock market with.
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    Default Re: How to Get a Great Group of Guys

    When you get good, things change. It's a compromise you make in getting girls, which also means becoming a leader. You get followers instead of friends. It sucks, especially because guys will become your friends only to leech off of your success. Chumps have chump friends because they group together, which is nice at times, but "Alphas" walk alone and usually by choice.

    I've said I usually fly solo, but in all honesty I live solo. Much of my life is by myself; by choice. When I go to the dining center I eat by myself at the bar. People will sit next to me and talk to me because they want to and they're good "friends", but they know I'm not all there. I'm in my head, giving them a maximum of 40% of my attention and they're okay with that. I leave social groups to study by myself, and they get it. It's lonely, but there are other "downsides" to pickup, some being much worse.

    Good friends are hard to come by in general, even harder at the top. Drake'll tell you that (here). I'd tell you how many real bros I had if I knew but I don't. I treat them as equals but they dub themselves inferior. I'm much more apt to call guys like you, Virgil, Tyrone, etc my friends over dudes that I see everyday because we have a mutual understanding of equality. That's friendship. The other is almost ownership.

    If you find a good bro, keep him and treat him right. Don't piss on your friends, because women will always come and go.
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