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Thread: Grass is Greener - LTR vs ONS

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    Default Grass is Greener - LTR vs ONS

    Looking back on my thoughts before I write them, I guess I'm in limbo figuring out what I want.

    Over the summer I was in an LTR - but not the kind of girl I'd settle down with - and I couldn't wait to go to college and start having meaningless ONS (and ODS as well in the afternoon)

    But now that I've had a few successes to cristen my dorm, I find myself thinking about 'ones that got away' and kinda wishing I could just find a nice HB7+ with that perfect personality and 'win the game.'

    I have some time - but not limitless - I'm 23 now.

    Can anyone relate to this? Is it just that 'the grass is greener' on the other side? Or is this a different thing?

    If I do get an LTR soon am I just going to find more personality falws like last time and wish I was single?

    Maybe it's just the 5am talking...
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    Default Re: Grass is Greener - LTR vs ONS

    For an update:

    Did a little sarging today, I think my answer is in the title here. Seems like I just gotta figure out with each girl if she's just going to be a casual hook-up or if she's LTR potential.

    I think that thought process in-and-of-itself will help me keep a high-value frame as well as help me to qualify girls based on LTR criteria.
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    Default Re: Grass is Greener - LTR vs ONS

    Love this new outlook.

    You're getting out there, meeting people, and having fun with each girl as she comes.

    And if one really piques your interest, you're ready for a relationship.

    Some would call your current Mindset the "ideal" ... the best of both worlds ...eternally on the lookout for some fun, but also on the lookout for "Ms. Right". Love it.

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    Default Re: Grass is Greener - LTR vs ONS

    Have them both. Your a man. We have billions of sperm for a reason

    Just dont get caught so mown your own grass and watch out for weeds.

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    Default Re: Grass is Greener - LTR vs ONS

    Dont fall in that trap of wanting that relationship. I made a thread about this a month or so ago about the same thing. Based on talking to other forum members on here and going over my laundry list of girls I had talk to. I come to the realization that if you look for LTR you will miss out on ONS. If you looking for ONS or ODS you will have a greater chance of having a LTR.

    So in summary, just have your fun and meet people and build experiences so when that girl with the great personality, and chemistry comes along you are good to go.
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    Default Re: Grass is Greener - LTR vs ONS

    I think if I was to pandoras box myself (Man-doras Box??) I would be a NJI - just crossed my mind lol
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    Default Re: Grass is Greener - LTR vs ONS

    I'm looking for LTR too, but I'm figuring out a pattern which is repeating over and over again: I find a girl which I realy like, I stop sarging and try to make a relationship with her, the first 3-6 dates go very well a lot of fun/sexuality etc and then the relationship starts to go downhill, we get insecure etc... maybe I'm not ready for a relationship yet.
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