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Thread: I'm Feelin Lazy - Relate?

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    Default I'm Feelin Lazy - Relate?

    You guys ever just get lazy with PU?

    I've got one FWB plus three targets that I'm gaming kinda incidentally: one I see in class, one is in a club with me, the other lives upstairs; but I'm not approaching any new sets.

    It's not aa, it's different. It's more like (for example now) I was like "hey, I'll go to the student Commons and do some computer-ing" and whenever I see a HB walk by I just don't have that hunters urge to catch her, I just think "I could grab that wildabeast, but I'm busy - doing an essay OR reading OR whatever."

    Maybe I don't feel as much of a challenge, maybe I'm just in an off-season for myself, maybe I'm just getting lazy. I've seen posts every now and then of guys getting tired of the game for seasons at a time - is that just happening to me? Can anybody relate to that? It's kinda like after you finish the story of a videogame and you could go through and try to get all the remaining points and stuff, but you just don't... kinda feels like that... I'm not good at feelings - logic is more my forte (like if you get it with that last reference xD)
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    Default Re: I'm Feelin Lazy - Relate?

    I can relate. Usually happens when you hit a peak in your learning. Until something groundbreaking shows up that gives you a new perspective and/or techniques then it's normal for your "hunting urge" to calm down.
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    Default Re: I'm Feelin Lazy - Relate?

    So you've lost the incentive to "complete the achievements" (lol) now that you've got a few you're working with?

    To some extent as long as you have targets you're still gaming. Not all pickup is cold approaches. But some of it can slip away if you don't remind yourself to keep talking to strangers

    I understand the feeling completely, but I also love game for game sake, I mean, man it's fun

    It helps me now that we have a solid Minneapolis lair here and (barring special events) I go out and game with them at least once a week

    I get out to the bar, chat with my friends and fellow PUAs, and I can't help NOT game

    The thing is I could also be complacent with the 3 dates I've got this week (and I have been before) if it weren't for other people to game with

    That's what reminds me how much fun it can be

    The real risk is, you start dating a few, stop gaming, in a few months when those end you go out with some strong aa and you're like, wtf?

    I don't know how, but find a way to enjoy the game for game sake. Get in the heat of the moment and you'll remember why it's so much fun
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    Default Re: I'm Feelin Lazy - Relate?

    Plan B, set simple goals for yourself, Ie, 1 new number a week, each week, regardless

    Don't call if you don't want to

    It's like working out, some days you hate going to the gym but you do it because it's what you do, and when you're done and youve hit your goal, you feel like a champ
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    Default Re: I'm Feelin Lazy - Relate?

    Thanks BatMan and RB, it helps a lot to have you guys here for some external direction.

    I guess what makes me love the game the most IS the whole process of making progress and improving my game/trying new techniques - going out and feild testing those perspective changes. I'v been trolling the forum and found a few higher-risk things I'd like to try and start integrating.

    Thanks again fellas!
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